Has anyone been with people who have been "rejected" by the Parks?

As much as I love my husband, he isn't a theme park person and just doesn't enjoy the "magic." He did have a magial moment when we stayed at CS. The kids, ages 9 and 8 at the time, where besides themselves with excitement one we reached WDW and then walking across the parking to check in the kids were like little puppies squealing with excitment over staying at the Mouse. He really enjoyed that. But by the end of the trip with cost mounting, he took the fun out it. The trip was salvaged by a wonderful server at Garden Grille and lots of attention by the characters made my husband relax a little and appreicate the gift he was giving his children. A wonderful 4 days with mom and dad and a place they dream about. But, after our last trip I decide to let him off the hook. The kids and I were at WDW for the day in January and had a great stress free time without him.
WE'll stick to other vacations with dad and leave mom to to the theme parks with the kids. :D

jeannej:smooth:
 
mommie2angel - I've been travelling for a while and just read your post. I have always said that as a mother, going through cancer diagnosis and treatment was a piece of cake - but I could not imagine having my child go through it. You had the toughest job in the world and deserve all the happiness and good health for your family that life has to offer. Everytime I am WDW and see a child that is obviously "living with cancer" I think about how wonderful it is for that child and their family to know a time filled with magic and not sickness. I am so happy that your little one is well now. How blessed we are to live in a time and a country when such miracles are possible. God bless you and your family.
 
KickTheSky,

Thanks for sharing that wonderful story. I think we all need to remember that when were are in the MK we are in a wonderful place, a place where dreams really do come true.
 
Originally posted by SharonS
My Mom and I went to WDW in March to celebrate my birthday. A little over a week before we were to go she went into Atrial fibrulation, and had pneumonia. Got out of the hospital Thursday, and we were to leave Tuesday. Her doctor OK'd her to travel, so we went. We arrived at BWV March 4, the day before my Bday. My Mom didn't seem right, so I was really watching her closely. She was exhibiting some very strange behavior, and had me worried and crying. The CM's at BWV were wonderful in trying to cheer me up. That night, I ended up having to call 911, and we took my Mom to Celebration Hospital. She was in heart failure, renal failure, and her potassium was extremely high. Now, this was my Bday, and I wasn't sure if she was going to make it. Someone made some magic happen for me, and I ended up being the Grand Marshall in the MK parade. It was wonderful, but I was also very sad at not having my Mom by my side to experience this. When we got to the end of Mail Street, they had the barbershop quartet there to sing Happy Birthday. This was so wonderful, as it is only my Mom and I and I have been caring for her for a few years now.

Mom got better, and was released from the hospital Saturday. We were to leave for home Monday. Mom was like a new woman and wanted to have some fun. We had a wheelchair from the resort, and went into Epcot for a while. Her and I were in Italy, and she was watching the mimes that come out and pose for pictures. One of them came over to her and she waved. Another guest tapped me on the shoulder and said that that was the best thing he saw all day. I wanted to cry, because he had no idea that she had just gotten out of the hopsital, and how thrilled I was just to have the chance to be in WDW with her again.

Everyone at our resort was wonderful. They always asked how my Mom was doing.

Our last day, we got into MK together, which is my favorite place. I can't tell you how special it was to stand in front of the castle with my Mom.

We are going back May 13-20 to celebrate her 77th birthday.

Sharon, this post made me cry!! What a heartfelt story that is to read and I can just feel the joy and happiness in each word you posted! Thank you so much for sharing that with us!
 

franw - Thanks! Your post gives me some much needed hope. You see, my aunt has ovarian cancer and a rare blood disorder which is preventing her from tolerating the chemo. She has been in the ICU on and off life support with no chemo for 5 weeks now. Her honeymoon with my uncle was to WDW in 1976. They were the only ones who didn't tell DH and I that we were crazy for going to WDW on our honeymoon. The whole family was planning a WDW trip for next year when we got her diagnosis. Those plans are now on hold as we hold out for some change for the better and just try to get her home from the hospital. I can only dream that one day she will be able to have another trip to WDW with her husband and 25 y.o. daughter. Until then, we are trying to hold onto the magic for her. Another aunt and I may be taking my young cousins (3 and 6) to WDW on the FTP in Sept. It will be the youngest's 1st trip and I can't wait. I will be thinking of my dear sweet-souled aunt through that whole trip and hoping for her to experience the magic again soon.
Hopefully there is a miracle out there waiting for her, too!
 
Hi folks,
I've read all the posts on this topic and I thought I would add my own story.
My first visit to a Disney park was in 1971 when I was 5 years old. My parents took my older brother and I to Disneyland. Even at such a young age, I still remember that trip vividly. I recall the music, the gabbling, excited voices, the sweet smells of candy, the mouth watering smells of popcorn, the far off screams from the Matterhorn, the wail of a lone wolf secreted behind a haunted mansion, the crisp "ding" of the trolley, the clopping of horses hooves, the rubbery woomping noise of dozens of ballons swaying in the breeze, giggles, laughs, points, shouts, music, bells, whistles, Magic everywhere.
And I especially recall my jaw dropping at the sight of the giant It's a Small World clock. I had to go. I had to see what it was. I just had to or my head would burst!
My dad, a career Naval officer, hard core Republican, firm Roman Catholic, rather stoic, somewhat firm, occasionally distant, but ever vigilant of his sons' safety, welfare and happiness, took my and my brother's hand and gamely stood in line. We climbed into the boat and I was in love.
The music, the dancing dolls, the shining lights, the endless, repetitive song even enchanted me. My head bobbed to the beat, my shoulders moved to the soft sway of the boat. I dangled my fingers tentatively in the water. "Quit that," my brother hissed. "You'll get in big trouble!"
And then the ride was over, with a huge, albeit muted, sigh of relief from my Dad.
And then the question most parents dread. "Daddy? Can you take me again? Please?"
And he did... three more times. Without a word of complaint. With nothing but a huge grin and a strong hand covering my own.
My own brother couldn't take it any longer. He sat with my mother and they waited as my Dad and I rode around the world.

So many years later, I'm a 6'4", 36 year old man, getting a few greys about the temples. I don't have children of my own. But I still go to the Happiest Place on Earth, only this time, it's bigger and in Florida.
I go with my partner and from time to time, friends join us.
And without fail, each time we visit the Magic Kingdom, I head to It's a Small World. Sure, the clock isn't there, it's in Disneyland. But the very same magic resides within.
Is the music cloyingly sweet? Sure. Does it have the tendency of sticking in your head for hours if not days. You bet! Does the ride itself seem a tad dated. Yeah, I guess. And can that song drive a sane man into fits. Yep!
Could I ride it four times in a row much like I did as a 5 year old? Ummmm, no. Once will do, thank you very much.
But I still climb into the boat, I still sway to the music, I still hum the tune.
And each and every time, when the ride comes to an end, and I see all the many different ways one can say "Goodbye" throughout the world, I think of my Dad. And that big hand holding mine. And that even bigger smile. And his never ending patience to make sure his 5 year old son is happy.
And I get a tear in my eye, a lump in my throat and I whisper aloud, "Thanks Dad."
And that's my own little story of Magic.
 
I've seen it loads of times since every trip we go on it rains endlessly. People just don't know how to "let it rain" without losing their composure. Parents screaming at kids to get out of the puddles, people running for their lives from the rain - it's all so unnecessary. Grab your child by the hand, and walk your family to the nearest indoor shelter - whether it's a restaurant, a ride or a shop. CM's are obviously used to guests using "their" building as shelter from a storm. You don't HAVE to buy anything - just browse until the rain lets up some.

Tempers flare when it rains - and it's always obvious which guests are allowing the magic to continue despite the storm - and which ones never had the magic to begin with.:rolleyes:
 
We all wear water-friendly sandals just in case. We pull on our ponchos and splash merrily holding hands. We love it when it rains, those who don't like it leave the park and we have shorter lines! My little one (we are guardians of our almost five year old granddaughter) laughs with joy when it rains. Granted, the rain was coooooollllllllld in December but we managed. I think the parks reject those who reject the "child" inside themselves. I'm 53 and I'm never gonna grow up!
 
BlueFairy - Have hope. I here amazing stories of miracles all the time. I know that this is a terrible time for your family but the best thing you can do is to go ahead with your plans and let your aunt hear all about it. Plan to take a videocamera just in case she can't go with you, you can take her there when you get back with all your photos and memories. Get on the internet and research your aunt's diseases. Keep busy and be proactive. It will make you feel less helpless and it may also open some doors for you. I know that if your aunt is able she will go with you. If not, she would want you to have your trip as the one lesson cancer gives us is that we need to live in the moment and grab all the happiness and fun we can. I believe that if we live to be 100 or only 50, we all live a lifetime - our lifetime. We need to make every moment count. God bless and I will keep your aunt in my thoughts and prayers.
 
franw - Thanks! I will try to follow your advice. She actually had some baby-steps in an improving direction this week. We're taking it one day at a time.

As for the rain . . . some of my family's best Disney memories involve getting soaked!
 












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