DawnCt1 said:Kids never ask about Santa until its obvious that Christmas is coming. In other words, it doesn't come up that often in July. .
Both my kids had "the talk" in the summer between 3rd and 4th grade. I figured if they were obsessed about it in the summer, they wanted the actual facts. In both cases they had shown signs of knowing the year before, but hadn't wanted to jinx it. Santa only brings one present and fills the stockings here too, so it wasn't a huge deal when they found out. I think they were both relieved not to be wondering anymore.