Guy Troubles...help?

[BeachBum16]

hey ya'll. just wanted to know if you could help me with something. and i am sorry i am always posting for advice. so there's this guy and he's totally ADORABLE and he doesn't really like me more than a friend. i asked him and he said he only likes me slightly more than friends. heres the problem: i am worried that he won't like me ever, when he stops liking me. We have dances every 9 weeks and i am afraid that when i am there and he is there he won't ask me to dance and i will be the only wall flower! will that happen? the first middle school dance of the year was today...so in 9 weeks there will be another. should i ask him to dance when the time comes? what do i do if he says no? i need help! please help me if you can....thanx ya'll!

 

[MuNkY]

Wear something sexy at the next dance.

Ask him to dance. I can tell you it's probably as simple as that as us guys and our simple minded brains really only care about looks. Just a sad fact of life.

 

[DisneyGirl1994]

yea ask him to dance you can't wait for a guy you have to go to the guy and plus if he likes you... he will say yes! i'm a girl i know these things and wear what you feel like wearing. don't dress up like a doll just for some guy like they say be yourself and thats what counts!

 

[DisneyGirl1994]

p.s guys don't just care about looks. htey care about whats on the inside and maybe whats on the out side but only a little - not alot.

 

[xxDisneyDancerxx]

Dont worry if he says no...and you dont HAVE to ask him to dance...you can if you want....but sadly to say I waited 2 years of my middle school life before I danced with a guy and it just happend to be the guy I like. I was too scared to ask people because i thought they would say no...so dont do that...usually people say yes...but make sure he doesnt have a girlfriend of that would be way embarassing. maybe wait one slow song and see if he asks you....and then if he doesnt ask him during the next slow song..he will most likely say yes.

PS wear what you want...like jeans or something...it doesnt matter if your dressed up sexy like the other person said. guys shouldnt care and he probably wont if your friendss with him....have fun at your next dance and I hope you dance with him

 

[MuNkY]

p.s guys don't just care about looks. htey care about whats on the inside and maybe whats on the out side but only a little - not alot.

Your obviously not a guy.

 

[AmoDolphin]

Sure! Ask him to dance! And, wear what you want. If he can't accept you for who you are, he's not worth it.

 

[DisneyGirl1994]

well munky i'm not i'm a girl and i knw that guys don't care because i asked all the boys in my school and thay said they care only a little bit. they care more about there personality!

 

[DisneyGirl1994]

PS wear what you want...like jeans or something...it doesnt matter if your dressed up sexy like the other person said. guys shouldnt care and he probably wont if your friendss with him....have fun at your next dance and I hope you dance with him [/QUOTE]

 

[2HOT2touch]

first of all, you dont have to dance with a boy to have fun. You can dance with your friends. Sencond if you really really want to dance with him then go for it, most guys dont say no, no guys have ever said no to me, and i have never wittnessed a guy saying no. And since the dance is so far away, you never know, he might start to like you more, or you might start to like someone else. good luck

 

[DisneyGirl1994]

i agree with 2hot2touch i have never been regectied by a guy and i just had a blow out and i danced wit a ton of boys!

 

[Sparx]

Ask him. If you don't, you will wish you had. You don't want to not ask him and go with someone else, then be there, wanting to be there with him. Thats not fair to you, him, or whoever you go with. The worst he can say is no. And he probably is working up the nerve to ask you too. It doesn't matter if guys care about looks or not, if you look nice, you feel confident. If you feel confident, if you're confident, you're gonna be ok. Since the dance is far away, you've got time. hang out with him, talk to him. get to know him. This way he might start liking you. And ask him to dance. Guys (usually) don't say no.

 

[PolynessianBaby]

Just ask him to dance! If he is your friend he will dance with you and no guy should ever turn a girl down if they ask them to dance, it's pure respect. I don't think he will say no though. Good luck and Have fun!
Taylor*