Grrrr....vent coming

[WDSearcher]

I understand where you are coming from. I don't think it will ever affect our friendship. It isn't a constant thing that comes up and the funny thing is when it does come up it is because he has made a reference to the situation. Then I ask him something, he avoids the question and then I get annoyed, which is what happened today, hence my need to vent today. I think he finds it funny how annoyed I get. We'll talk tomorrow and everything will be fine. It just bothers me, because I just can't figure out WHY he won't admit it and I'm the type of person who always needs to know why. It is my personality flaw sometimes

Well ... if he's okay accepting your personality flaw, maybe you just have to concede to be okay accepting his personality flaw in return. Live and let live, if you will. You get annoyed by him ... he gets annoyed by you ... seems fair.

 

[kwelch10377]

Well ... if he's okay accepting your personality flaw, maybe you just have to concede to be okay accepting his personality flaw in return. Live and let live, if you will. You get annoyed by him ... he gets annoyed by you ... seems fair.

Yeah, we have a very funny friendship/relationship and most people don't get how we have stayed friends for so long, but for the most part it works us.

 

[shortbun]

No I do not and it is not something that I would throw away a 15 year friendship over.

For friendships it is best to act like a man. They punch it out then go have a beer with all forgotten and forgiven. Sounds like you've gotten your punches in. Walk away or take him for a beer. Just my take on it. I have a lot of men friends. I call them a bad name so they know they've not gotten over on me. sometimes I even call them out again the next time I see them but there is nothing to gain from nagging a man who is not married to you. He will just stop coming around. They hate conflict. I'm headed to the man bashing thread, lol!