Grr. Need...to...tell....him...

[Cassidy]

GAH.
I need to tell him.

Im sad.
I wanna tell him.
But afraid to be let down.
We went out once.
My darned friend Kaeona told him. Grr.
I think he is reconsidering.
He's looking at me alot.
He gives me the " Maybe one more time " Look.
I love that look.
He spent his entire isolated lunch staring at me.
I KNOW IM YOUNG.
But I've liked him for 2 years.
I cant believe it either..

Hes the boy in the picture. He was looking away.



I dont care if people say " Your too young to know what love is "
I dont care.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

hopefully ull realize when ure older that theres no reason not to tell him. I mean if u tell him what u truely think what can happen thats sooo bad. O welll good luck and how old are u

 

[Cassidy]

12.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

ehh 12 not that bad. i was thnkng 10 cause all the people by me are tall and overdevloped for there age. but 12 isnt that bad. u may not know what full love is but u have a person u like and if he likes u back u should deserve the right to go out

 

[Cassidy]

I dont want to ask him.
I want to be friends...at least

 

[Rockstar mentality]

Just talk 2 him without being overwheled my ure cruch for him. have a meaningful convo.

 

[Cassidy]

Im not the type of girl to be like

OH..MY...GOSH!
*jumps up and down*

Im like a relaxed type.

He will never talk to me though..

 

[SBubba18]

I have a story for you. It's from my own personal experience..

Right now, I have a boyfriend named Andrew. I met him a little over a year and a half ago during marching band season. We really didn't talk then. But as time went on, we started talking more and more. Then this last year, we became great friends. Then he went out with my best friend..They lasted about 3 weeks. After that, I started liking him. But at the same time, my other friend liked him. What we did, was we both asked him out at the same time. He choosed my friend over me. I didn't stop liking him. After about 3 weeks, they broke up. I waited a few weeks and he basically said one day that he liked me. So I asked him out again. We talked about it for about a hour, and he told me yes.

Basically, what I am saying is that you should never give up. Even if you do get shot down a few times.

 

[Cassidy]

I never will.
2 darn years.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

Im not the type of girl to be like

OH..MY...GOSH!
*jumps up and down*

Im like a relaxed type.

He will never talk to me though..

No offenc but i only half believe that. My logic is that u wouldnt have posted this thread if u were soo calmish. Why wont he talk 2 u.

 

[Cassidy]

Nooo. Lol. Im not the "girly" type who would be like OH MY GOSH HE SAID HI TO ME!!!!!

And, well, I dont know.
Im *kinda* friends with his friends. Hes always hanging around them. I barely ever talk to them. Im afraid to just say hi..

 

[Rockstar mentality]

Just saying hi could mean everything. Saying hi gets you noticed. How can u be liked of be friends with anyone if they dont know u exist because they ignored u becasue u didnt speak to them

 

[Cassidy]

I smile at him instetad of saying hi???

 

[Rockstar mentality]

From experience hi is better. Just say hi and hope to start a natural convo from there. I can tell it would probaly be ackward for u but dont let it be. GO up to him like hes ure bestfriend

 

[BabyPiglet]

What we did, was we both asked him out at the same time. He choosed my friend over me. I didn't stop liking him. After about 3 weeks, they broke up. I waited a few weeks and he basically said one day that he liked me. So I asked him out again. We talked about it for about a hour, and he told me yes.

Are you me? That happened to me in 4th grade.

Me and my friend both asked out this kid, Mason. I had had a little crush on him since 1st grade. Anyhoo, he first picked my friend but they broke up a couple weeks later. I called him that night, and asked him 'out' again and he said yes. I went around the house screaming my little head off. Anyways, we didn't really go anywhere during elementary school but I'd send him little notes with hearts on them and he'd smile and stare at me. Anyone who's been on the TB for more than a year would pretty much know how that all evolved.

ANYWAYS, CassidyLilly you just need to tell him. You have nothing to lose.

 

[Cassidy]

Yeha.
I might.

 

[DramaQueen]

I'll tell you from expirience Cassidy, there is nothing more freeing than telling someone you like them. Even if they turn you down and break your heart, once you tell them, you are FREE.
Free from the constant, haunting thoughts about them, free from your obsession, free from waiting, free from thinking "what if"

I went through that a couple of years ago, I was OBSESSED with this guy, totally thought I was in love with him. He was constantly invading my brain, I would go out of my way to see him, I'd take the BUS HOME when I didn't even need to just to see him.
When I finally told him I liked him, he said he didn't feel the same (in a very nice way mind you) and it broke my heart, and I cried, and I was sad for a couple of weeks, but then it was OVER. I could stop thinking "what if" and go on with my life.

So honestly honey, you just need to let him know (and TRUST ME, I know how scary it is!!!) but who knows, maybe you'll get lucky and he'll feel the same way.

pls feel free to mesage me if you need any advice or anything like that!!
I truly hope everything works out for you.
(and sorry for the tremendously long response!)

 

[BabyPiglet]

This is what I'd do...

Casually I'd ask him at school one day, if he'd like to see a movie with me this weekend. A little before the movie, I'd joke a little and say, "Honestly, I'm a bit nervous. I've liked you for a while now." therefore making him more comfortable because I was honest and said I was a bit nervous. Then you guys could just be yourself and laugh about the movie. Then afterwards we'd go to get something to eat. That way we could really get to know each other.

^ That's just what I'd do if I had someone near me who I liked.

IF you go to a movie or something like that, I suggest eating afterwards. My first date was a BLIND date...

My mom's co-worker had came over to our house to pick up some office stuff. He brought his cousin with him (he was about my age.) Well I looked awful! In my pajamas, my hair all frizzy, makin' mac and cheese. I just tried to stay in the kitchen. Well, a couple weeks later I get a call saying who he was, and when he was at my house he thought I was really cute. Problem is, I couldn't remember what he looked like!!! Anyways, we talked constantly for about a week and went to see a movie that weekend.

When he was paying, he dropped the money and wind blew it everywhere. While we were walking in, he didn't even offer to get me a soda and we just walked briskly to the theatre. During the movie, we didn't say two words to each other. After all that, we both felt awkward. I didn't get to talk to him, because it was a movie, and you don't get to talk to people during the movie! It really didn't help that I didn't know the guy, and couldn't remember what he looked like. Anyways, we started chatting again on the phone but I couldn't go through anymore of those painfully awkward dates so I just told him he was really nice and sweet, but I don't think we really clicked. I kinda regret it now, because I didn't give him a chance.

Just some stories that hopefully made you feel better. If not, sorry.

 

[Cassidy]

LOL. Speaking of the movies...

After school, "(in my avatar) i took that picture,
RIGHT after i snapped it, he said " ANYBODY WANNA GO TO THE MOVIES?!"
I wanted to say so, but just looked at him like something just hit me on the head. It was embarrassing, cause he was looking at me to. Then i smiled and tiptoed away quickly.

But i really did wanna go to the movies...lol.
Not just for him.
I wanted to go during school.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Then you should've said, 'Yeah, I've been wanting to see a movie all day.'

That way you'd probably be surrounded by friends as well.