Most of the group homes or assisted living communities I know of are only for the developmentally disabled. Here in Florida unless someone was disabled before age 18 there is ZERO, ZIP, NONE, NADA financial assistance for independent living even if a nursing home costs more money. Duh. Someone with complex medical needs will be moved far away from their families to be housed in a place that can handle their medical needs but ignore their emotional ones. People deserve better. Most adults I know are struggling to stay alive and don't have time or energy to fight government policy that denies us a dime for or own care to live in our own homes. Kudos to the OP for thinking out of the box and trying to solve a huge problem.----Kathy
Wow...I have not thought about the distinction between someone that was disabled before 18 and someone that was disabled after... they are all adults with a disability...what is the deal with that?
You are so right. We are doing a fairly good job in MS of trying to initiate and keep up with the legislation for people with disabilities thanks to a few parents that actually have the energy. Many don't. Most don't, really. You are so right!
Politically speaking, I was hoping that Palin would somehow get towards the White House to that she could initate legislation that would help. Although it seems like she has barely scratched the surface of living with a disability, honestly...since her child is so young. *** I don't mean to start a political discussion here...just a random thought. ***
Kudos to the OP for thinking out of the box and trying to solve a huge problem.----Kathy
It may be because it is early in the morning...but I am not sure what this means? What is OP? Sorry...I may just be tired.
i'll pass on some info. you might want to research-
check how your state defines different adult housing situations. in ours if a person provides certain types of "care", room and board for adults it requires licensing. then depending on the number of people there are different designations for what the place is (an adult family home vs a group home vs a boarding home....). one of the big issues with this can be the zoning in a particular area-as well as cc&r's (if applicable). adult family homes in our state are permitted in residential neighborhoods, the other categories are not. in some areas with cc&r's there are rules prohibiting operating buisnesses-and adult family home's require a buisness lic. in our state so hoa's have been sucessful in blocking them.
if it's strictly a situation where you would be renting rooms and the residents would contract their own providers then you have to look at zoning as well. some residental neighborhoods are zoned as strictly single family homes and operating a multi renter housing arrangement can be illegal (was in the neighborhood we used to live in).
in either case educate yourself on federal and local fair housing laws-you can (for lack of a better word) "market' yourself to the type of disabiling conditions you prefer to serve, but you may be in violation of fhl if someone applies for a vacancy and you turn them down based on their not being of the disabling nature you prefer (this can be downright nasty-there's a couple of cases of housing discrimination going on right now where soon to be paroled sexual offenders have made a point of applying to group/adult family homes that serve the disabled. they are to some extent successfully arguing that in some jurisdictions 'sexual addiction' is designated as a disability and that the property owners refusal to rent to them violates fhl
Wow...this is sounding complex!

I do have a contact that works for Medicaid in our state and should have a wealth of information about this stuff. But I am going to bring all of this advice to the table!!!
We used to have a law in MS (and I do think it is still on the books???) that any housing where more than 8 females live is considered a brothel? Is that how you say that?

So I have to make sure we aren't breaking that law, too!!
And as far as the different types of disabilities...Uh...Not sure how I would handle that...but you can bet someone won't be within 100 feet of Lauren. Me, her mom and HER DAD would insure that reality.
you might also want to familiarize yourself with food stamp regulations. there's a fairly good population of disabled that are in receipt of them and there are definate ways you would need to set up the purchasing/preparing/storage of meals to either retain a resident's eligibility or not disadvantage them (5 separate people get more food stamps than 5 people who are required to be mingled into the same 'food stamp household').
I have not even thought of food stamps. All of the ladies that I have in mind probably would not qualify...I guess until they are out on their own? It seems like all of them will want to work or be "gainfully employed"... Which brings up a whole different set of problems... like what to do when they make more than the allowed amount for Medicaid... then they end up volunteering just to keep their benefits...which is completely ludicrous!!!! Lauren wants to be a lawyer or a psychologist...and she would have to be pro bono to keep her Medicaid benefits...which is STUPID... Don't get me started on that.
But that is a very, very good thought...
It seems like we may have to keep this small and make some sort of co-op, maybe even unofficial?? I don't know...
but this is all very, very good information!
just to give you an idea of some kinds of assited living-i can tell you what was available to us where my mom lives (northern california). she's pretty much what you described-physical disabilities such she could'nt live alone anymore but nowhere near to needing f/t nursing care.
we found she could move into an adult family home or a 'board and care home'. both were required by ca to be lic. because the staff helped with some things, people generaly did'nt have outside aids-it was all provided by the on-site or contracted by the facility/home owners. the option we went with was an assisted living center. the place is basicly like a hotel (individual apartments but all in one building and accessed by a main entry). the place provides to ALL residents housekeeping (once a week), laundering of sheets/towels (once per week), and 3 meals per day-group dining at set times served to your table. this is the base rate if you require no 'assisted services'. if you require assisted services you use your own provider (they have an agency to refer you to or you can get your own) and the providers and the resident handle all the financial issues independant of the facility (the place she lived previously had their own staff and assistive services were done in 'tiers', so even if you only needed one area of assistance from tier 1 you paid for that entire tier-and it got progressivly more expensive as you progressed through the tiers, it's much more reasonable where she is now and can pay for exactly what she needs-nothing more). the nice thing about where she lives now is unless she required full time nursing care she can stay their for the remainder of her life-they have an arrangement with hospice should that be necessary as well).
good luck-sounds like a great idea.
Wow...that sounds like a good system!
I really appreciate all of the information you have provided! You have a wealth of knowledge on this topic...
I will keep this thread going and keep you guys updated!!
Also...please feel free to keep adding info!!! This is all very helpful to us!