Oh my friend, I would be in shock, too. I'm so sorry. I wish I had some words that could take away your pain but those words don't exist.
Saying prayers for you and your children and for you husband. Bless his heart, this is just terribly sad and such a shock.
I'm sending you a pm, Vicki. Remember that we all care about you and we're always here if you need us.
Katholyn