I have no problem with the "extra charge" offerings at Disney. They are not required, they are options. Last trip we did none. Next trip we are considering EMM and
MVMCP. I would consider those a splurge, but we may do it. I really don't feel those offerings take much at all from the average park-goer, either.
I agree also with the PP that said those extras offer variety for those people that visit Disney often. That's not us, but that is a lot of people, and extra options are great.
A Disney trip of any kind is a luxury and I'm just going to be happy to be able to do it occasionally, while keeping in a budget. Others can come to Disney and pay 5X as much for a trip of the same length because they stay in a much nicer hotel, eat more expensive meals, and take part in a lot of those extras that have an upcharge. That is their choice and their right.
I admit, I do feel that a lot of the extras are quite overpriced, but they sell, so of course Disney will continue to offer it! We are in a free market system. That's how it works!
There's also a vast variety of options once you are there because there is a vast variety of people who are there. I could pay $0 for lunch if I pack one from home, or I could pay $100 for lunch at one of the signature restaurants. Because some people think $100 for lunch is ridiculous, should it not be offered? Of course not!
Okay, that was rambling...sorry about that...