PeterPanic
<font color=royalblue>I hate the squeeze thingy. I
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"My job is not to do your job. My job is to clear all the roadblocks that would otherwise interfere with you doing your job"
Said my favorite manager ever. I try to do the same now that I'm in that position.
The problem with a question like that is that there can be a difference between a "good" manager in the eyes of employee's and being an effective Manager in the eye of the company.
All managers want to be liked by their people, but they cannot always be Mr. Nice Guy/Girl! Sometimes they are called upon to do some really unpleasant things. I had my share of both good times and bad times as a Manager. I also had that combination as a worker.
I found out a number of things as a Manager. I found that many people will do whatever they can to manipulate you to do things their way. I found that some people will do whatever they can to make you look bad in the eyes of your superiors. I found that many people will only do the absolute minimum needed to not get fired. (you can recognize them, they're the ones that are first on the list when layoffs come around) I also found that there are many people that you can completely rely on to be there to help you out when needed. I also found that people need support and encouragement and none like to be criticized in private, much less in public.
A manager should be there to help with finding ways to make the job easier for his/her workers, but, and this is very important, always listen to the people that do the work for ideas on how to make it better. Never think you have all the answers.
A manager will probably have a lot of confidence in themselves about how a job should be done. They have opinions like everyone else, however, the sooner that they realize that their way is not the only way, the smoother things will go.
In an emergency, a manager should always jump in and help meet a deadline or accomplish a task, but, that is not your job. Your job is to avoid emergencies by making sure that everything that is needed is in place.
And always, always back up your employee when you feel that they did the right thing and followed the book. Otherwise, throw away the book, it's useless if it isn't followed.
Be friendly, but, not a "buddy". Be calm in the face of problems, but, not emotionless. Treat people in a manner that you would want to be treated, in a fair, thoughtful manner.

The week before the Presidential election, he wanted to include a note in our paycheck envelopes about his favored candidate and why we should all vote for him. Somehow, the woman doing HR put the kibosh on THAT gem.
In mid to late June, he ranted that he NEVER said that. Too bad if you already had vacation plans - it was business as usual that Friday before the holiday.
If you try to help them they will try to help you.
and eager to please. For me it's a win win.