Thanks for all of the replies!
I'm kind of scratching my head on all of the references about paying for college....of course we know that we will be paying much more in college tuition. Thats kind of a given.
What I didn't expect, especially coming from Michigan, where all three of my (subsidized wholely by my and DH's incomes) children were born and raised until 4 years ago, are the crazy amount of fees Illinois school districts are allowed to get away with charging, unless you have a free lunch/fee waiver in place. In Michigan, where I fully expected to raise my kids through adulthood, public schools do not do this. I get that it is my problem that we moved to Illinois, but it doesn't mean that I am happy about paying cadillac fees for a good old Buick education that was FREE for a similarly decent school district in MI.
My kids are slightly smarter than a box of rocks and will do well no matter what, but we are Midwesterners whose big aspirations are to send our kids to a Big 10 state college where they will get a perfectly fine degree in their chosen field. Ivy League will likely not be in the cards, so honestly, I still have to say that our "Public Prep School Tuition" as DH and I have now humorously dubbed it, still irks me.
Sorry...I just can't help but rant about this!! Thanks for the calculator advice everyone!
California just passed a law that limits the fees that can be charged....and apparently the ACLU has cases in the works on the topic. Public education should be free - or at least reasonably free. I don't think its unreasonable to pay for extracurriculars or reasonable supplies (including an expensive calculator) or even have a fee assigned to elective art or shop classes, but schools are going overboard as they lose state funding. Mandatory band but you provide the instrument - and we assign it? That's far too far in my mind.