This thread is disappointing. I have been a loyal and supportive WISHer for a couple of years and to see some of the comments here is so sad.
I posted a thread trying to help someone who was locked out of the race. I didn't know it was not ok to do so. After I was informed that it was not ok, I followed up with Disney to check. And got bashed for that with sarcasm and snarkiness.
I then got bashed for wanting the shirts that I paid for. For what it's worth, yes, I want the shirts and here is why (even though it really isn't anyone's business):
I would LOVE to be participating this week-end. Trust me. I have been planning for this week-end for a long time. Unfortunately (as many of my WISHmates know), my youngest daughter is critically ill. I simply cannot leave her at this time. However, I will absolutely STILL be logging 13.1 miles on Saturday. At home, on my own, in support of my teammates who are running where I would love to be. Sorry if that means I didn't "earn it" in your eyes, hockeygirl (and others who might feel this way). I am addressing you personally since you found it necessary to make that a big deal.
Additionally, that shirt will serve to remind me that (1) I am part of a bigger team that is supportive of my love for running and my love for Disney, and (2) help keep me motivated in the hopes that next year I and my family will be in a better place and I will be able to participate.
You have clearly stated that you can't understand why anyone would dare to wear a shirt for a race they didn't do. Maybe now you understand why I WILL wear mine.
While I would never wish illness (or the illness of a child) on anyone, the one thing that my daughter's condition has given me is PERSPECTIVE. The issue being discussed here is SO trivial and meaningless in the larger picture. For those of you with nothing bigger in your lives to worry about--wonderful for you. I hope you never have to experience a true problem or crisis.
For those who have been understanding and supportive either here or via PM, I thank you. For those who disagree with what I have done but were able to disagree RESPECTFULLY, I also thank you.
For everyone else, no need to ask the mods to close this thread. I am done and won't comment here again. In fact, I am actually rethinking my commitment to WISH. Prior to this thread, I have found WISHers to be nothing but super supportive, friendly, helpful and wonderful. This thread has brought out a side of some of our teammates that I didn't know existed.
Best wishes to all who are running this week-end. I would love to be there with you and will be cheering you on from here.
Erika