Going to see Maleficent - Sweet Sophie's MAW 8/23-8/31 Pre-Trip Report

greenjellybean

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Greetings to all!

I have been lurking for a while and have finally gotten up the 'guts' to try and post our journey. I'm not very tech savvy, and life is often busy and unpredictable with our family right now, so bear with me if I take a while to post or respond.

I'm mom to two DDs, Savannah (11) and Sophie (7) and wife to DH, Scott. I was working part time in a precious preschool with the most wonderful staff and class before Sophie's health issues started in October. Now, I am staying home with her for the time being, with plans to return to the preschool next fall (have I mentioned that they have been amazing and have reassured me that my position is MINE when I want it back.... such a blessing).

Sophie, as you can tell, is our MAW child. Sophie was diagnosed with Langerhan's Cell Histiocytosis on December 6, 2013. It is a condition that affects approximately 5 to 10 people out of 1 million (a majority of which are children). With LCH, a type of white cell gets activated, much like it is supposed to when an infection is present to destroy the infection. In the case of LCH, the white cell in question (histiocyte) becomes activated for an unknown reason and begins to multiply and destroy whatever organ in which it is located. In Sophie's case, it started in her skull above her left eyebrow and proceeded to destroy the skull itself, causing what her doctors called a moth eaten cloth effect. By the time we knew there was an issue, the mass of cells was threatening her brain. She was misdiagnosed the first time and it wasn't until December that we got the right diagnosis.

She is currently going through chemotherapy and the mass of cells as well as the lesion in her skull are responding beautifully! She is actually in the maintenance phase and we hope she will be clear of all issues and done with chemo in June. That's the plan anyway! There will always be a risk of reactivation of the histiocytes, and because of where the mass is located, her risks for developing insipidus diabetes as well as Central Nervous System involvement are considerably higher than for other children with LCH. Believe it or not, I am far more fearful that it may invade her CNS than of the diabetes. My understanding is that both are irreversible and can only be managed, but the CNS involvement is more progressive and obviously would affect everything. But God has been good to us and her and I'm confident we will deal with whatever we have to, because that is life. :)

On to the fun stuff! Since Sophie qualifies for MAW, she is confident that she wants to go to WDW! We have taken them once, to celebrate my mother in law's life and love of Disney. She always wanted us to go with her but to my great regret, we never made the effort to save the money necessary to make the trip. As you all know, it can be expensive, and while we did other trips with her, my DH felt like the money for WDW could be spent better elsewhere. FWIW, he was the one to plan the trip to honor her memory.

We made it clear that our trip was to be a once in a lifetime trip, so I wasn't too surprised when Sophie's first choice was WDW (she said, you mean I can go back?!?!:yay:). She has since considered other wishes, but never for long. She has not met with her MAW granter yet, but we got the call earlier today that they have a volunteer in our area. We were 'warned' in her initial letter of acceptance that traveling funds are limited and as such, travel wishes may be limited, so there is a chance she may have to wish for something else and I've tried to prepare her for that. She says she also wants a camera of her own to take her own pictures. OR she wants to trade pins.

I feel like I should mention that Sophie is my girly girl. She still likes the princesses, but a little of the princess 'magic' is gone. :sad1: Favorite color is purple and she loves sea turtles and make up and clothes and shoes! princess:

Savannah is my preteen, who is STARTING to show an interest in clothes and shoes and make up and the such. She is far more interested in her animals (she has a fish tank, a hamster and a gecko) and continues to catch whatever critters she can outside. She loves to read and is very smart and very generous. Favorite color is teal and ocean animals

They both LOVE Minecraft

As I mentioned before, I'm hopelessly out of date tech speaking, so bear with me if I do something stupid that EVERYONE knows you aren't supposed to do in a forum.

And for anyone that has actually taken the time to sit and read this terribly long rambling novella, God bless you for taking the time! :) I'll try not to ramble so much again
 
Have some top secret news that I can't share with anyone here until I get the go ahead from my sister, but I probably won't know anyone on here and I'm about to bust! She found out today that she's having TWINS! So excited for her and my brother in law and nephew!
 
More good news. A volunteer with make a wish called this afternoon and left a message that she wants to meet with us. Sophie is starting to get excited. I'm interested in what to expect with this meeting. So far I've read that they usually meet in your home and take measures to ensure that the wish child isn't being manipulated in anyway, but that's all I know.
 
I don't suppose anyone had any suggestions regarding time of year to visit WDW? I'm not entirely sure how it works, but I believe MAW asks for several dates that may work for you. I personally don't care. However. I would LIKE Sophie to be done with her chemo treatments, If possible. And I'd like to avoid the worst of the summer. The one time we took the kids was during September of 2011 and I really enjoyed the fall and Halloween decorations at MK. MNSSHP was lots of fun and just beautiful.
 

*tap tap tap*

Is this thing on? ;)

I hear crickets.

Seriously. It's warm enough outside that I can hear them chirping, and thought it apropos, so I shared.

I've probably done something wrong already and either managed to keep these messages private (in which case, no big deal I guess)...

OR I've committed some major faux pax that has completely alienated myself. Like forgetting to wear deodorant in July at WDW in a small and cramped elevator.

Or calling HS, MGM.

Or something equaling offensive. ;)
 
Noticed Sophie's handwriting looked different two days ago, but her teacher and I agreed that she was probably in a hurry.

Sophie told me today that her hand shakes sometimes when she is trying to write lately.

I'm worried. I'll call in the morning and report it to her oncologist. I'm hoping and praying I'm being ridiculous.
 
Happy note, I spoke with the lady today that plans on meeting with Sophie to ask about her wish. Her name is Bonnie and she sounds very nice. I've told Sophie and she's excited and had suggested that we meet her immediately.
 
Welcome!

I am glad to hear your story. My daughter is meeting with her wish grantors this Tuesday and me, being the planner HATES not knowing what to expect.

I could just see my 2.5 year old being asked where does she want to go--and she says "grandma's house"--with live 5 minutes away! Or Target. Or if they ask her what she wants--she'll answer a slice of pizza.

She talks about going to Disney World ALL day long. But who knows what will happen on Tuesday!
 
Reese's pieces! I recognize you! I hope she's doing well! I'm sure you are very excited for her upcoming wish meeting with her make a wish grantor! To be a fly on the wall during that meeting.... :)

And on a personal note, thanks for responding! At least now I know that others can see my posts. I thought maybe I was doing something wrong lol!
 
Random thought: the Wish Trippers Unite thread is awesome! Love all of the tips, ideas and suggestions for visiting WDW and on how to navigate this site. Especially love reading all of the trip reports! So grateful to everyone that has contributed!
 
So I have FINALLY gotten around to uploading some pictures to photo bucket so I can share my family with you all.

Our MAW contact (Bonnie) has set the date to visit for March 29th at 3:00 and since it looks like Sophie is going to ask to return to WDW, I went back and pulled pictures from our surprise visit in 2011. I'll post more current pictures later.

So, like I said before, we took this trip in large part to celebrate my mother in law's life and her love of WDW and decided early on that we would make it a surprise trip for the girls as well. We pulled them out of school (yes, I'm one of those parents, but it was an expensive trip and we could take advantage of free dining which made a HUGE difference on the total bill) and told them we were going to visit the Blue Ridge Mountains for a long weekend (I'd love to go back there too). We pulled over at a Cracker Barrel and after lunch, we shared the secret and much to my delight, actually got the moment on video. Savannah is in the green shirt and Sophie is in the pink.







Chef Mickeys


Me and Sophie


Savannah Bug


Sweet Sophie


Probably my favorite family pic, even if DH isn't smiling :)


We stayed at Pop Century and had a great trip. Biggest issues we had was that both girls got car sick on the way down and I, unfortunately, developed a terrible case of food poisoning at HS on our last day. Because of that, I caused the girls to miss Fantasia. :sick: So I felt terrible AND guilty. I did try though and encouraged them to stay and watch.
Note to future self.... avoid veggie burger. :eek:

We did breakfast at Akershus and Chef Mickeys and MNSSHP. Lots we didn't get to do, but let's face it, that is the nature of the beast. You just can't get it all done. All the more reason to go back, right? ;)
 
Santa actually came to the house and visited with the girls for over an hour this past Christmas!! What an awesome surprise. Brought them both gifts and read the night before Christmas. Sang several Christmas carols with them and spent some time talking about the birth of Jesus. He even talked about boys and what Santa wants these girls to watch out for!! :rotfl:

 
I won't go into Sophie's story again in detail because I did that in the first post and (honestly, I'm running out of time). But I did want to include some pictures.

Sophie first complained about her left eye brow hurting early to the middle of October. The following morning, it was swollen and I took her in to see her pediatrician. What followed was two weeks of continued visits as each diagnosis was wrong (including assistance with a local specialist). We were finally referred to a specialist at MUSC in Charleston. This was taken the morning we were leaving.



The first of many CT scans and MRIs.


Waiting to go back to surgery to drain what her team of doctors believed to be a orbital subperostial abscess. Since they never could identify the source of infection, she was sent home with a picc line and some powerful antibiotics over the next six weeks.


I have pictures of her coming out of her surgeries, but one day she may not appreciate me sharing those, so I'll refrain. MUSC wasn't all bad. They had a massive playroom with lots of natural light that she LOVED.


On the way home.


And our precious older daughter Savannah, who had to be shuffled around to various family members and really forced outside of her comfort zone while we were in Charleston with Sophie for a week. She helped her grandmother clean the house and presented us with a cake of her own design upon our return!


Sophie has since gone back into the hospital here in Columbia twice. Once for a week to undergo another biopsy and again when she got sick and her ANC was low. We are very fortunate that her chemo treatments have gone so smoothly. She naturally, has had issues and suffers from pain from the chemo and steroids, but overall, we have much to be thankful for. Her hair, while thinned considerably, hasn't even fallen out.

One of her awesome nurses braided her hair the night before her biopsy to keep it from getting super tangled.


Getting ready for the port to be inserted and her first chemo treatment on December 26th.



And finally, current pictures. Savannah has, naturally, grown up and looking too old for her daddy's liking. :rotfl2:


And Sophie has changed allot since starting chemo. She doesn't like the way she looks since she has started the prednisone, since it's rounded her face and caused considerable weight gain and is hesitant to allow me to take pictures. But she did willingly allow me to take this one and we used it to print off thank you notes to give to all those that have done so much to help us. She chose blue because it is the ribbon awareness color for Histiocytosis and yellow because its the color for children's cancer awareness (it's the color of ribbon we see all around the children's clinic).
 
Because I'm a dork and I think my kids are adorable :rotfl2: I have to add one more video. It's from right after Sophie's doctors said we could return to Columbia and Sophie was READY to go! Not the best visually, but it is what it is. She was super excited to GO! :cheer2:

 
Thanks guys! I appreciate it and hope I'll do a good job with keeping info updated and entertaining!

On a side note, my two video links didn't work. :( Must need to do something different for those than what you do to post the pics. I'll see if I can't fix that asap.
 
Thank you! Sophie doesn't think so since her appearance had changed so much since starting chemo. She rarely complains but had become very introverted and no longer enjoys having her picture taken. I'm going to show her your comment.
 














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