disney-super-mom
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I broke with with Chase because he was too needy and clingy for me. I had only dated him a month and he was already complaining he didn't see me enough. I see him 3 times a week, and to me that's a lot to see a guy for only knowing him a month! He wasn't very interesting either. My events are always entertaining and amusing (at least to me they are) and his consisted of going to his friend's hockey game and playing pool. BORING! I enjoy doing different and new things and he prefers to stay at home. Plus there wasn't any fireworks when I was around him; it felt more like a chore to hang out with the kid.
I am extremely picky with who I keep around, ask my mom. Hence why she jokes to everyone I have the wedding planned, just missing the groom.![]()
I had a cling-on in college too. We were good friends, but he wanted more....he always told me how much he loved me.....and he would somehow find out what I was doing every night (I think he must've sneakily gotten the info from some of my friends/aquaintances) and then he would just show up wherever I was. If we had a little argument or disagreement, no matter how little and insignificant, he would send me a dozen roses. He even called my mom and dad one time asking them how he could get me to fall in love with him!

Anyway, good for you to cut the cling-on strings now. It would only get worse if you didn't.
