Girls and Boys!

[jbcheerchick93]

Ok someone HELP ME!!! I need help talking to this new guy I like and I am such a scaredy cat when it comes to talking to a guy I like for the first time. I'v only flirted with 2 guys and it wasn't even real flirting. I've made eye contact for abt 2 mins before but thats it. This guy only goes to my church not to my skool so I only see himonce or twice a week. Last weekend we went on a retreat for church and he's in my grade so I saw him a lot and on Saturday night I saw him cry because everyone was crying that night (don't ask why) so ya. I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yep, you guessed it, i'm going to ask!

was it that thing. i know thats really vague, but its, everything by lifehouse i think?? and they do this amazing skit to it??? ive watched it on youtube and cried for, like, an hour.

but he sounds really nice. just try to talk to him a little bit more.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I love my boyfriend. He got some serious points with me today. he's so awesome. everyone needs one of him.

Maybe in a few years, either guys wont be jerks, or my friend and I will click (since next year we wont be in the same school)

Im so excited for you!!

 

[::Snow_White::]

I know what you mean, I get called Lesbian all the time, because I dont think guys are "hot" (Freddie Mercury ) anyway, but yeah.
I am more of the person whos like "wow, personality?? Now thats hot!"
Guys at my school are jerks, if i didnt like my crush, i wouldnt like anybody. No one interests me. Not even my best guy friends (well they wont EVER interest me, they are brothers to me)

I mean, the way I talk its sounds like I have a lot of guy friends, and I kinda do but not really.
Guys arent everything.
Then again im a hypocrate because all I can talk about is "Remember when.." instead of "Forget then, lets party now!" you know what I mean?
I just cant let go.
Forgive - Totally
Forget?- Never

Its hard to explain, its one of those "You have to personally know me" things.
Wow, off topic

I'm the same way.
If I didn't like my crush I probably wouldn't like anybody.
I don't have any guy friends.

I know what you mean.

 

[Axel]

I know what you mean, I get called Lesbian all the time, because I dont think guys are "hot" (Freddie Mercury ) anyway, but yeah.
I am more of the person whos like "wow, personality?? Now thats hot!"
Guys at my school are jerks, if i didnt like my crush, i wouldnt like anybody. No one interests me. Not even my best guy friends (well they wont EVER interest me, they are brothers to me)

I mean, the way I talk its sounds like I have a lot of guy friends, and I kinda do but not really.
Guys arent everything.
Then again im a hypocrate because all I can talk about is "Remember when.." instead of "Forget then, lets party now!" you know what I mean?
I just cant let go.
Forgive - Totally
Forget?- Never

Its hard to explain, its one of those "You have to personally know me" things.
Wow, off topic

I know what you mean. I like guys with a good personality. While most of the guys I like are considered at least "cute" by my friend's standards, they all have great personalities. Like John- he only rates a "moderate" according to my friends, but I don't know any other guy who looks like him who would dress up as Eunice (aka: "The angry old southern lady") from A Streetcar Named Desire just because I asked him to.

I have pictures of that, btw.

 

[Cassidy]

Girls are boy crazy at my school.
Yesterday 2 girls got in a fight over this dude named Nick.
ew.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I'm not into hot guys. Sometimes, I am, other times I'm not.
Mostly the cuties, with adorable faces.

I had a really good day. Math class was completely endurable as I spent the entire class with him, and he was helping me with some really messed up math. And he wanted to play some sort of lame game that the sub was playing (yeah, games in HS? ***) so he forced me to be his partner xP
I've given up on any hope of ever getting together with him, but he's a good friend, good friend =)

 

[KitKat_Tink]

As weird as this sounds i think i'm over that guy i mentioned before...He cares about me so much and i care about him but i don't want anything to hurt our friendship and i don't wanna hurt his current girl...When they break up maybe i'll change my mind but for now friends it is!

 

[reminisce]

As weird as this sounds i think i'm over that guy i mentioned before...He cares about me so much and i care about him but i don't want anything to hurt our friendship and i don't wanna hurt his current girl...When they break up maybe i'll change my mind but for now friends it is!

i only wish i could do that

 

[KitKat_Tink]

i only wish i could do that

I only could becasue i saw the smile he brought to his girlfriends face...I put myself in her shoes...She's walked in on me and him in heavy flirting sesions and i know how she must feel...Some stuff happened and he's helping me through it also...I just have so much more i guess respect for him as a friend...That i really care about and happen to think is highly attractive...

 

[reminisce]

I only could becasue i saw the smile he brought to his girlfriends face...I put myself in her shoes...She's walked in on me and him in heavy flirting sesions and i know how she must feel...Some stuff happened and he's helping me through it also...I just have so much more i guess respect for him as a friend...That i really care about and happen to think is highly attractive...

i understand what youre saying. i know that, if i tried, i could break up my crush and his girlfriend. easily. i dont even know her, but i could never do that to someone. i just wish i could be over him.

 

[KitKat_Tink]

i understand what youre saying. i know that, if i tried, i could break up my crush and his girlfriend. easily. i dont even know her, but i could never do that to someone. i just wish i could be over him.

I proboly could have too...

its sad really...


he'll sit next to me and not her...

I'm kinda like dude your gf...

she really doesn't like me as it is

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Well.
My heart is broken.
No, I didnt tell him, but there was this dance, and he completely ignored me, he couldnt even get through 1 song without moving to a different group, but then it was ladys choice and...well...he was the only guy there, and so then this girl whos dating my friend, got really into it with him, and it just broke my heart.

You might say "Dont worry it was probably nothign" because it was one of those you had to be there moments, where you could just feel your knees about to collapse into thin air, and your heart is about ready to pop out, and your head, oh god your head!, its all stuffed like you have EVERYONEs sinus diseases all put together.

I didnt know I liked him THAT much.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Aww Mouse =/

I usually don't go to dances for that reason. Guys I like don't want to dance with me, and would rather dance with someone else.
Course, the guy I like doesn't go to dances, he has work and .. church in the middle of the week? Lol, I never understood why there'd be church in the middle of the week, but whatever.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

The worse part of it all is..

She has a boyfriend, she cheats on him ALL THE TIME, infact she has 2 boyfriends but I dont DARE tell him that, because I care too deeply for him, and he has tried to commit suicide before (MULTIPLE times) -(not my crush, but my friend whos dating her)

Plus, my crush KNOWs about her, why would he...hang..out..with her..and slow..dance..and...


Im not crying, but If i had the time, or will-power to tell my mom all of these things, then I would be.

Right now, Im just saying my contacts are irritating me.

I have to see him later today.
I dont know what to say, he has no idea how hurt I am, though I think he can feel it, because we have telepathic type stuff.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Plus-
I guess Im just the person that he talks to when everyone else is gone, I guess that was it all along, but I was too stupid to realize it.
I, thought...we...were friends, GOOD friends, oh how wrong a person can be

 

[reminisce]

Plus-
I guess Im just the person that he talks to when everyone else is gone, I guess that was it all along, but I was too stupid to realize it.
I, thought...we...were friends, GOOD friends, oh how wrong a person can be

awwwww!!

if it makes you feel any better, youre not the only one in that situation--i im-ed my 'friend' last night and less than five minutes into a conversation he said 'im going to go theres no one online' and logged off before i could even say bye. AND hes the guy who took me to homecoming. sometimes i think thats all im good for- being a bit of a trophy for guys. sadly, i can never tell how serious they are until its too late.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Ditto.
I just feel so used all the time.
First everyone calls me ugly, then someone DOESNT call me ugly, and I get my hopes up (even though I say "dont get your hopes up") and ...this isnt the first time its happened, I just...
This time its worse.

I dont know.
No one is my best friend, its always people who are bored, so they talk to me.

 

[#1TiggerFan]

Mouse i feel so bad for u! i just want to jump in the computer screen and give u a hug!

 

[mikeyandscoobyx2]

Same. I am so fed up with my "so called friends." They pretend to be my friends, but when something comes up where you need another person to do something, they always skip out on me and i'm one of the left overs. But really, I don't want to be their friends at all. They are such perverted people with such sick minds. They don't come out in day light. The one kid brought a POKEMON toy, yes a pokemon toy, to our school to play with. He only plays video games and he ignores me all the time. I won't stand for anything from such a low-life person like that. ( Were in seventh grade by the way ) I'm also sad because my really good friend is moving away to the town over. She still lives in our town because her house isn't finished, but she already goes to her new school. I'm left with.. about 3 friends. All the other people are such jerks.

(sorry if this is off-topic)

 

[jbcheerchick93]

poor mouse! i feel so bad for you!! i'm changing my color coded post, mouse. jarrad= official crush. he is so much fun, and he calls me jesse boo. all of the time, talking, texting, talking to other people. it makes me have butterflies. he calls me in the middle of the morning and he goes...i miss you sooo much, when can we hang out??

i missed my bus yesterday because of him. we were talking and i was like byee doll!!! and i turned around, but my bus was gone. i looked at him and told him that it was his fault. he was like, jess, im sorry, i really am. my dad can drive you home a little later. but my mom came and got me.