Girls and Boys!

[Babyjustrun]

Wow, that must suck! I didn't know there was a religion that does that? I'm sorry!


but I have a question for everyone!

so I've been dating the best person ever! for about 6 months now and most likly over the summer.. but he is a senior. so that means that he's going to college next year.

just how hard is a college relationship? and be honest! lol

He's a Jehovah's Witness.
I did a little looking around on things they do/don't do, but I couldn't find anything about the only socializing with members of your church.
But that's probably just his church, some churches do that, no matter what form of Christianity it is..

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Okay so as some may know. Ive been talking to this boy now for about a month. We dont go to the same school, but the towns are right next to each other. I have all my family and alot of friends there, so Im there all the time. Anyways we've only spent time with each other 3 times. Bowling, he picked me up from a friends and brought me home, and then the Spring Carnival. The bowling was the first time we seen each other, the next time it was still kinda awkward, being with him, but then the third time, I felt totally comfortable with him, at the fair. Anyways I'm leaving for Disney in 12 days , so were doing some thing this weekend, cause we want see each other for those two weeks. But I'm going to his house to watch movies. Ive never been to a crushs/boyfriends house. So im kinda nervous. Any tips???

 

[Babyjustrun]

Today was bleh day.
My homeroom teacher came back (apparently he does not enjoy the chaos of a new baby, wonderful husband) and he MOVED the desks back to it's original placement. Which means I'm alone in a corner again, and I'm no longer near him.
Uggh, which also means I don't see him much

I didn't get a chance to actually talk to him today. A few times in the hallway he'd ask me stuff, and we talked to each other while going to our buses, but nothing interesting.
Although today was the first time he actually said goodbye xD (I don't know, I always wondered why he never did)

 

[jbcheerchick93]

i am mad today. this guy that i kind of like, but not reAlly, were more friends than anything, is being a total *insert bad word*!!


he talks to me every night, and its HIM doing the texting me first, calling me, blah blah blah. and then he goes to school this morning and is taling about how much i always try to talk to him and how im sooooooooo annoying. im like, uhm......YOU talk to ME! but when i asked him about it he just said that he never said that stuff. i have had more than two people tell me this, and two of them arent even my friends, they just mentioned it. then i found out that he is doing it just to seem cooler around his one friend, jeff. even jeff has tolod him that i am cool and i have hung out with jeff before and this whole thing is just making me really really mad at him and i don't know what to do. i did n't talk to him at all today an its totally different. at the end of the day he was walking by me and lightly touched my arm and said goodbye. i was just so mad i was like, yeah, bye. omg this is so much of a rant but it is really making me mad.

okay rant over, but i dont feel any better.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

i am mad today. this guy that i kind of like, but not reAlly, were more friends than anything, is being a total *insert bad word*!!


he talks to me every night, and its HIM doing the texting me first, calling me, blah blah blah. and then he goes to school this morning and is taling about how much i always try to talk to him and how im sooooooooo annoying. im like, uhm......YOU talk to ME! but when i asked him about it he just said that he never said that stuff. i have had more than two people tell me this, and two of them arent even my friends, they just mentioned it. then i found out that he is doing it just to seem cooler around his one friend, jeff. even jeff has tolod him that i am cool and i have hung out with jeff before and this whole thing is just making me really really mad at him and i don't know what to do. i did n't talk to him at all today an its totally different. at the end of the day he was walking by me and lightly touched my arm and said goodbye. i was just so mad i was like, yeah, bye. omg this is so much of a rant but it is really making me mad.

okay rant over, but i dont feel any better.

I think he likes you.
Okay so I have some news I guess.
I think this guy likes me, who flirts with me every single day (I dont like him)

Heres how your story and my story connect:


Him :
"Heeyy baby, give me someee loooovvinnzz yeeaouch!!"

Me :
".... i gave you a hug...last friday (Which I seriously didnt want to admit that it felt so heavenly, to hug a guy..it was weird)"


Him: "Yeah, but that was because YOU wanted a hug, you were seriously ALL OVER ME"

Me: "Sheah right!"

Him: "Come on. Pweetty pwweetty pweasee??"

(Bell Rings)

Me: Gotta go.

NEXT DAY

Him: Gawdsh I told you, no hugs

Me: What?

Him:Yesterday, you were like "zomg hug me hug me!"

Me: No...I wasnt

Him:Oh come on, just admit it, you WANT me


---
Im almost 100 percent sure he likes me.
Which your story sounds, a lot like mine, which makes me come to believe that, I think he likes you.

 

[jbcheerchick93]

yes mouse, we are in the same boat.......our dumb guy friends.

he said yesterday, *supresses massive giggles* that he *more giggles* wants to feel me up sooo bad *bursts out laughing*

i was craking up, but i think that he was serious. and i think that these two guys just happen to like us. yep yep yep. they are in looooooovvvveeee

you just need to ignore him for one day and see what kind of reaction you get from that. it will be totally funny! trust me, i've done it before and these two guys seem to think that all of the sudden i hate them ha ha ha ha yeah right!! i could never ever hate those two! they are amazing friends, but MSASSIVE perverts.

 

[CrazySteph]

Today was bleh day.
My homeroom teacher came back (apparently he does not enjoy the chaos of a new baby, wonderful husband) and he MOVED the desks back to it's original placement. Which means I'm alone in a corner again, and I'm no longer near him.
Uggh, which also means I don't see him much

I didn't get a chance to actually talk to him today. A few times in the hallway he'd ask me stuff, and we talked to each other while going to our buses, but nothing interesting.
Although today was the first time he actually said goodbye xD (I don't know, I always wondered why he never did)

lol aww I bet he missess you..

so like, I'm guessing you're not the same religion as him, right? So if he DOES date you, will he be kicked out of his church, or something of that sort?

 

[Babyjustrun]

lol aww I bet he missess you..

so like, I'm guessing you're not the same religion as him, right? So if he DOES date you, will he be kicked out of his church, or something of that sort?

Well I did some research.
I don't know if he's be kicked out, but he'd be disfellowshiped, which is kind of like being suspended.
I think you get let back in on good terms. But if he were to get kicked out, that would be it. No getting back in.
I believe he's not allowed to date until he's 18 because his religion says that you should only date people you are considering marrying, and to date only within those of the same religion. And if you date/marry someone who is not of that religion, your religion comes before that person.

And I don't know exactly what the rules are here. He's not allowed to go to peoples houses that aren't of his religion, but does that mean he can hang out like say at the mall or the movies? I'm rather confused.

Anyhoo, today was really good. I spent every 3/5 classes with him, which made me happy. He stole my ipod like the entire day, but I don't really care. I came close to getting his e-mail, because we're doing a project together. I'm either asking my other friend for it tomorrow, or hoping that he's going to ask for it monday.
Probably the first one, simply because I can't count on the second.

 

[ginnygirl102]

Hi again!! Ok srry obnoxious moment!! Ok well my friend wants to ask this guy out, and they already told each other they like each other in a game of truth or dare so ya they kno they like each other. He tells me more stuff than her and he told me that he is scared to ask her out. I like this guy too though so what should I say and she doesn't kno I like him either. Well if u can help me then HELP!

 

[Sparx]

today sucked.

 

[Axel]

So. According to Facebook, today was "International be Sexually Inappropriate With Your Friends Day". I didn't do anything horrible. There were some bad jokes...and some groping, but that was it.

But Ryan took advantage of it like you wouldn't believe. On the bus he was being very blatant about what he thinks of me and John right now. And I joined in eventually. He just starts up with "So, John, Alex and I think you're in denial about Patti liking you and you liking her." Just out of the blue. I laughed my butt off at John's expression.

Oh, today was priceless.

 

[jbcheerchick93]

man, if only i knew that it was that today!!!!!!

i would have had soooooo much fun

 

[Babyjustrun]

Heh, no one at my school was worse than usual.

This is going to be one hellishly long weekend. I want to see him again, my parents are coming home on Sunday...
and I can't wait for either.

 

[AbsoluteAwesome1]

Hey.
I'm starting to wonder if I like my friend.
I've known him for a looooong time... and he's my best friend's younger brother.
He's a year older than me, though.
He's so funny and nice and awesome and we'll be going to the same school next year.

I'm just not sure. I thought I did last year, but then I kinda forgot about it but I ran into him and his sister today and we talked for a while. Ahhhh!!

 

[jbcheerchick93]

take you time with your feelings, you dont want to mess it up.^^

about the International be Sexually Inappropriate With Your Friends Day....well i told my one friend brad, and we got sooo crazy with it! i wont post what was said here (tooooo dirrrrt-ayyyy!) but if you are a person, like me, that HAS to know when someone says something like that. then p.m. me.

it is funny, but not that much now that i think about it. OoOoOoOo i'm going to start a new thread!! more on my love life later!!

 

[lpe_bratz]

JACOB: He's a grade ahead of me, he's in 8th. I'm in advanced math..he was in my class last year and I asked him to the movies. He said yes, but then his brother that's in my grade, Josh, messed everything up and we didn't talk again until this year. Now he talks to me all the time and flirts worse than he did last year. Hmm. So he's going to the high school next year so I doubt I'll see him much. Josh and I were friends last year til I asked Jake out. Then he was a total jerk about it. Now we're like besties!


MITCHEL: Ahh..My yummy tomato! Hah. That's what my friends call him. Red hair and his face is always red and he wears orange and red constantly. Anyhooser, we were best friends last year...he was the first to talk to me after I switched schools. He's sooo funny, nice, sweet, and always makes me laugh! MY friend asked him if he liked me b/c in Home Ec. he was apparently flirting with me and kept looking at me (that's what 3 of my friends said) and he said he did. Alot. But he wasn't ready for a girlfriend b/c none of his friends had them. But now...all 4 of his best friends have girlfriends and he's single...sooo my bff Maddie said he's probably gonna ask me out!


And LUCAS...don't like him much: Okay. Guy in my English class. We sit by each other and when we pick new seats, he ALWAYS wants to sit by me! He's really athletic and kinda not the "good" guy all the time and I think he's reallly cute! And when we were watching another English class perform plays, he and his friend sat behind me and my 2 besties, Katey & Marlee, and all I heard from his friend was, "Yah but I only like her..you're like in LOVVVVVEE with her.." and I turned around and he turned bright red and he's like "You didn't hear that..."


So..we have a dance in like 2 weeks..and I'm not sure who to ask! Grr!

Oh..and there's a rumor going around that I like my friend Luke and stuff and Maddie said that's why Mitch hasn't asked me out. But IDK.

 

[jbcheerchick93]

i am shocked. no, appalled at this question!

haha jk. but it DID come as a big surprise. i was talking to my friend brian when he sent me to this random website (not so appropriate) then he asked me if i would ever make him a porn video

i was like. NO! NEVER! it was jokingly, but i couldnt believe that he would think to say that!!

just HAD to share my life story..

 

[Babyjustrun]

Ughh.
I'm still frustrated with this.
My friend is under the impression he's going to ask me out soon..or something along those lines.
But that would make no sense. He's not allowed to until he's 18. I'm a non-believer, that'd be 'Biblically' wrong.
And well, even if he would...
I'm kind of afraid that he or his family would try to convert me. And in now way I could I follow those rules, or believe in it.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Eww!

Im glad to say that if I liked someone when I was little I would be amazed if he looked at me in the hallway, and during summer I would miss him, miss...someone Ive never even talked to.

Now if I like someone, I would just be glad to talk to them, and then during break, Im glad that they call me.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Ughh.
I'm still frustrated with this.
My friend is under the impression he's going to ask me out soon..or something along those lines.
But that would make no sense. He's not allowed to until he's 18. I'm a non-believer, that'd be 'Biblically' wrong.
And well, even if he would...
I'm kind of afraid that he or his family would try to convert me. And in now way I could I follow those rules, or believe in it.

My friend is always under the impression that my crush is going to ask me out, he cant date, neither can I.
I think your friend might be messing with you, maybe not. I dont know. That really sucks. Im sorry.