mickeyfan1
<font color=purple>Come and let me show you my tat
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- Jul 23, 2002
Originally posted by pnelson
I've noticed as I've grown older that my self esteem seems to be suffering in terms of looks, attractibility, self worth, etc. Now, I'm married, so it shouldn't matter, but somehow, it does. What methods do you use to feel good about yourself?
First off, you seem to have some serious issues that a ggod councelor could help with. Since you are married and you are concerned with attactability, is your husband verbally telling you that you no longer look good? If you looked good when you got married, and you have let yourself go, maybe he is concerned for your health. I am probably a lot older than you, and I get more and more self assured with each passing day. I have a very stable marraige, I live with in my means, I have a brand new house to look forward to. Yesterday I got my hair trimmed and a tattoo. I am enjoying life.
I have read a lot of your others replies to people. You seem to be not only mean, but relish in putting other people "in their place" which of course is a place of your detirmination. Being nice can be a major esteem booster. Smiling at people, offering to help a stranger, being less judgemental. ALl of those things might make you feel better. Your post remind me of the Grinch. He found out that by being less selfish he became a better person. Remember, it isn't how others treat you, it's how you treat others.