Reading boards like this can be a double-edged sword; you get invaluable experience and information, but you also can get a hefty dose of negativity.
Since everyone's experiences are personal, the 'good ' and the 'bad' have pretty lengthy ranges of interpretation.
Overall, things do change. Progess, after all, comes with change. Progress also comes with risks. Some pay off, some don't. It's still WDW/DL, right? It's still where little ones can 'believe' and things feel 'magical' for those brief times in life.
This is a post I made recently; I quote it to show how I 'worked through' some negatives and how perceptions are 'reality'. Obviously it's a trip report specific to a single time, but take it for what it's worth~
We were in WDW from Nov 29-Dec 6
Crowds: More so than I expected, but manageable. The free 30 day crowd predictor was about perfect (the afternoon rain storm messed that up a bit).
Wait times were reasonable, nothing more than 30 minutes (I did get the Fairy meet and greet which was quite tame, ringing in at @ 30 min). We had the front of the MR a few times, no mad dashes/rushes, except one night at MK was tight; we jetted out after the castle lighting (I think it was
MVMCP night?) We did FP for TSM, and walked right in after a couple other attractions first. I did hear it broke down a few times, causing moderate madness.
Weather: definitely all over the place, as predicted. Ranged from 40 to nearly 80. One or two swim ops, mornings and evenings quite chilly. That said, there is something a tad more festive about a nip to the air during holiday Disney! My group prefers the mid 60's...but I definitely prefer mid 70 + and it was about 60/40, favoring the cooler side. The wild card was the rain storm. Luckily we hit the parks at opening that day and by the time it hit (we were finishing up with the Fairies in Toon Town), around 3pm or so, we were tired anyway. It did seem to last the night, but the next morning was clear, dry, and a warm day.
ADRS: We had a handful, and most were met on time. 1900 PF was running a good half hour behind, and a couple men ahead of us caused quite a ruckus. But it wasn't rushed INside, which made up for it. Chef Mickey, otoh, was VERY rushed, and I was severely disappointed (our last CM was so wonderful for interaction, too). We managed a walk in at CP, which was one of the best eating experiences, breakfast, facing the castle of all views. Superb service, food, and quality time. Akershus was also a perfect experience. First in seating, first with princesses, a perfect Epcot day. And of all things, against all reviews, heh, H&V was excellent! Top notch food in both quality and variety, super character interaction, very postive all around.
Decorations: I thought there would be more, yes, but what I saw was certainly lovely. There is just nothing like that castle! Maybe there is more decor as December gets closer to Christmas?
Hotels:We were at Wyndham Bonnet Creek, which seemed quite full, yet never cramped. Very roomy, and the staff was wonderfully attentive, especially during activity time (rain storm). Free face painting, snacks, etc...Kids were thrilled. Pool areas are great, with a lazy 'river' as well.
I give the trip a 7.5 , hmmm, an 8 out of 10. We had a few truly magical moments that trumped disappointments. And that is what Disney does.