Gay Days - will it ruin our Disneymoon?

[PrincessMo]

Just writing in to say I hope no matter what you choose ember that you have a fantabulous honeymoon. it is ultimately your decision what to do here and you are entitled to your own opinion as we all are. So, just listen to your heart and never settle. I think no matter what, you will have a wonderful and beautiful honeymoon to always remember and cherish!!

Have A Magical Day!

 

[hmgolden]

We did see one young {in their teens} hanging out along side Tony's restaurant... they were holding hands which then went to hugging, to making out. To be honest, I wasn't pleased Only because there's a time and place... none of which is on Main St USA.... when I turned back around to stear my kids in a different direction I noticed when they were done with their kiss.... they were looking at everyone with such hate in their eyes.

Not for nothing, but I can do without having to watch any couple making out while I am eating dinner. Doesn't matter if they are gay or straight. I just don't need to see that!

 

[heathrow42]

Go to User CP (upper left) - Miscellaneous - Buddy/Ignore lists I think this will block PM's from that person...

You can also turn PM's off alltogether - User CP - Settings and Options (first one..) - Edit Options - uncheck the box in the second section that says Enable private messaging.


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[ohanafamily]

Hi Ember,

I think you have your answer, but if I may add my 2 cents(US)... Personally I would find it an interesting experience to see. If My DW and I were to go this time of year I could see her giving me a red shirt to wear to see if anyone would try for me (lol). She knows I am hers...

I do, however, have a friend that went several years ago during the "rainbow week" with his (then) teenage daughter. He was not able to cope with the reality of the situation. That was many years ago, and he is extremely closed minded. From what I can tell the political statements are pretty much gone, and shouldn't interfere with your happiness.

I might re-iterate a couple of points that might make you feel a little better...

It will be crowded that time of the year regardless. Because of the unofficial event, I think that the crowds in the other parks are actually a little lower. If you avoid the park of the day you shouldn't even run into any festivities.

As far as inappropriate behaviour... Well, I see it all of the time when we go to WDW. I see lots of couples kissing, esp the ones on their honeymoons...Heck, you will be on your honeymoon and might even be guilty of that yourselves a few times of an overly passionate kiss or embrace .

Cheerleaders can be quite obnoxious , but if you go during the basketball camp week (and stay at All Star Sports) you won't get any sleep

Again, If you have an open mind, I would say don't change your schedule, got for a little while just for the experience. If it (or the lines) starts to get to you, just hop on Disney Transport and Calgone it to another park. You will at least have a great honeymoon story to tell!!!

A couple of other suggestions... Wear the Bride and Groom Ears. I love the way people will congratulate you all day long.....It is a high point. Also, people tend to ignore inappropriate behavior a little more if you are on your honeymoon...

If you can score and ADR for the Chef's table at Victoria and Albert's, you will not be disappointed.

During Summer, ADR's are very important, and remember that they can be cancelled. If you are feeling rushed, you can always opt for Room Service a few nights, but there is not always last minute availability during Summer.

RickinNYC is one of the nicest people I know, and if you have any real and serious planning questions about this event, I would put him up against any authority (Even the FAQ you read). He is a moderator on the G&L board and I suggest sending him a PM. (I hope he doesn't mind me sending you his way, but since he has already been on this thread...)

Also, if you are getting unwanted PMS and flames from an individual, you can PM a moderator and they will be more than happy to look into the person in questions actions.

All of the above being said, might I suggest you appeal to the mods to close this thread? I think you have your answer (and have made your decision) JMHO

 

[disneybride2007]

I guess my concern is two-fold: One, the huge upswing in crowds (I've been to the parks when they're stuffed to capacity and have to say that I prefer it a little less crowded). Two, I wasn't sure how much of a political event/statement this ends up being. The article by the webmaster implies that it's very political and that's just not something I want to deal with on our honeymoon.

When I went to Rome it was (unknowingly) at the same time as the massive peace rally before war was declared on Iraq. The city flooded with over a million protesters. It didn't ruin the trip (so many I should have used a better word) but it did put a bit of a damper on it. The influx of people meant everything took longer to see/get to, and it was such a hightened political atmosphere that it over shadowed the city. I wasn't there to protest or for any politcal reasons, I just wanted to enjoy a holiday.

Same sex couples wouldn't bother me in the least, but an overtly politcal agenda would. We're still talking about it and I'd love to hear more opinions.

We have never found gay days to be political at Disney. It does get really crowded and there are, also, a lot of same-sex couples with their children, as well. It's, still, a family environment, it's just that some of the families may have two mommies or two daddies And, yes you may see a same-sex couple holding hands or sharing a tasteful, kiss- but you will see that even with hetero couples I would hardly call their shirts political statements. I sort of see their shirts more as "identifiers", like how some families wear matching shirts at a family reunion. But, make no mistake it's crowded and it's hot- but hey, it's Florida

Go for it and have loads of fun- because everyone else there will. I hope this helps, just a little.

 

[disneybride2007]

I have had 2 years striaght with cheerleaders...they are ok from afar...it is just the 7am thing that will kill you! No one should be that happy in the morning!!!

Ya know I was a cheerleader and I can tell you there is always 1 that's not a happy camper, early in the morning.

 

[ZippyDooDah]

OK, can I just say one more thing? I've only heard this point "hinted" about by another poster. You say you're on your honeymoon and you are worried about crowds? Ember, if it gets too crowded, just go back to your room and do what you're supposed to be doing on your honeymoon! Mickey will understand, I'm sure!

 

[Ember]

OK, can I just say one more thing? I've only heard this point "hinted" about by another poster. You say you're on your honeymoon and you are worried about crowds? Ember, if it gets too crowded, just go back to your room and do what you're supposed to be doing on your honeymoon! Mickey will understand, I'm sure!

I'm not spending all that money to be in Disney to spend my days in bed! I can do that at home! LOL

I think we're going to work it so we leave on the 30th of May (which is a Wednesday). That gives us four days before the wedding that we'll arrive, and 9 days after as the offical honeymoon. Then we avoid the crowds from both Gay Days and the just out of school kids. I'm not expecting the park to be empty by any means, but I've been both during low and high season and I deffinately prefer it on the less crowded side. Plus, by the time the wedding comes along I'll already be relaxed and in vacation mode!