cbg1027
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I think the opposite of the "rigid riser" (people who get up to let all women or elderly sit down) is a much, much, much worse guy. Every once in a while I see these grown men, apparently perfectly healthy, who are sitting on a bus at disney world and a women or old person gets on and the man doesn't get up to offer their seat, they just sit there and try to pretend like they don't see them. I'm not talking about a man with a baby on his lap, or a man who is trying to get out of the way because he has all his family's stuff and strollers and he is just trying to get out of the way, I'm talking about a man just sitting there on a full bus and not offering his seat. I tell myself that I don't know everybody's business and the person probably has a physical problem or something that prohibits them from getting up, but I think some are just onery and lack basic good manners and common decency, to be honest.
I would never expect a man to offer his seat to me just because I am a woman. If I want to sit, I'll wait for the next bus.
I think the opposite of the "rigid riser" (people who get up to let all women or elderly sit down) is a much, much, much worse guy. Every once in a while I see these grown men, apparently perfectly healthy, who are sitting on a bus at disney world and a women or old person gets on and the man doesn't get up to offer their seat, they just sit there and try to pretend like they don't see them. I'm not talking about a man with a baby on his lap, or a man who is trying to get out of the way because he has all his family's stuff and strollers and he is just trying to get out of the way, I'm talking about a man just sitting there on a full bus and not offering his seat. I tell myself that I don't know everybody's business and the person probably has a physical problem or something that prohibits them from getting up, but I think some are just onery and lack basic good manners and common decency, to be honest.

I agree with you on this 100%, but I think the article was talking about the skeezy dudes that do this. Which just makes me feel gross inside, lol.

I would never expect a man to offer his seat to me just because I am a woman. If I want to sit, I'll wait for the next bus.

I would never expect a man to offer his seat to me just because I am a woman. If I want to sit, I'll wait for the next bus.

ah, mug thread, cutting in line, pool hopping, taking kids out of school and now the ever fun bus thread all in the same week. You can just about forecast the weather for many areas based on Dis activity, controversal posts pop up like this any time large snow storms hit large areas, I'm still trying to figure out if its bored kids or annoyed parents that thier kids are home again.
I would never expect a man to offer his seat to me just because I am a woman. If I want to sit, I'll wait for the next bus.