Funeral Processions

That's a nice idea and all but if you are impeding traffic that could cause problems.
True. If EVERYONE is coming to a complete stop where they are that is one thing, but if it's only random people they need to pull off the roadway and not impede traffic or become a danger to other cars.
 
We have a national cemetery in our area. Our city has dedicated about 4 white cars with lights and officers to direct traffic as the fairly frequent processions drive by on their way out the cemetery. We are expected to be alert and follow the officers directions. Impeding traffic in any way is a big no.
 
The days of stopping for a funeral procession ended with Smokey and the Bandit. There is way to much traffic now. I just maintain whatever speed I'm going so as not to cause a traffic back up. If you end up behind one, well, it sucks to be you. All of us have probably had that happen at one time or the other. If you are on at least a two lane divided highway it is also encouraged to (Tee Hee) pass on by.
 
I find it really interesting that something thats just part of normal culture in Ireland has all these laws in various different States in America.

I have never seen flags on cars in Ireland, the main funeral procession is a hearse with the coffin and then the first 10 cars after the hearse are assumed to be the funeral procession. In Dublin there is still a few funeral directors who have horse drawn carriages for the coffin.

If a cemetery is less than a mile from the Church, its still very normal for the funeral procession to walk behind the hearse.

At my aunties funeral last November, the cemetery was beside the Church, so her coffin was carried out of the Church by male members of the family down to the open grave.
 

I have never seen flags on cars in Ireland
the first 10 cars after the hearse are assumed to be the funeral procession.
I haven't really seen flags used here unless talking about the hearse but permittable by state law here is the usage of hazard lights and that seems to be the most frequent way of showing other drivers all the vehicles that are within the procession.
 
I find it really interesting that something thats just part of normal culture in Ireland has all these laws in various different States in America.

I have never seen flags on cars in Ireland, the main funeral procession is a hearse with the coffin and then the first 10 cars after the hearse are assumed to be the funeral procession. In Dublin there is still a few funeral directors who have horse drawn carriages for the coffin.

If a cemetery is less than a mile from the Church, its still very normal for the funeral procession to walk behind the hearse.

At my aunties funeral last November, the cemetery was beside the Church, so her coffin was carried out of the Church by male members of the family down to the open grave.
The state I grew up in up in required flags on all cars in the procession. They were typically small purple flags with the word Funeral on them.

I haven’t been to a funeral in the state where I live now that included a trip to the cemetery, nor have I come across a funeral procession while out and about. I went to a funeral for my uncle, and then his remains were taken to a National Cemetery with only the immediate family accompanying it. When my grandmother passed, we had the funeral here, and then her remains were flown alone to the state where I grew up to be buried next to my grandpa. When my parents passed, they requested cremation, so we had a short memorial service at the cemetery before their cremains were buried (they passed close together, so we hadn’t finalized the plans for one before the other passed too) but no formal funeral.

Those Irish traditions sound lovely, particularly the horse drawn hearse and the procession on foot.
 
The state I grew up in up in required flags on all cars in the procession. They were typically small purple flags with the word Funeral on them.

I haven’t been to a funeral in the state where I live now that included a trip to the cemetery, nor have I come across a funeral procession while out and about. I went to a funeral for my uncle, and then his remains were taken to a National Cemetery with only the immediate family accompanying it. When my grandmother passed, we had the funeral here, and then her remains were flown alone to the state where I grew up to be buried next to my grandpa. When my parents passed, they requested cremation, so we had a short memorial service at the cemetery before their cremains were buried (they passed close together, so we hadn’t finalized the plans for one before the other passed too) but no formal funeral.

Those Irish traditions sound lovely, particularly the horse drawn hearse and the procession on foot.
Processions here I have seen have all had orange bumper stickers on the passenger side of the windshield that say FUNERAL. But searching I see they also make flags like some people put on their cars for their favorite sports team, or an orange card than you hang on your interior mirror that says FUNERAL. However, I have only seen funeral processions in California, never taken part in one. All services I have attended have been in the chapel or other facility at the cemetery. So the only procession is within the cemetery grounds. https://www.vischerfuneralsupplies....uto-procession-items/auto-hanger-funeral-tag/
 
I find it really interesting that something thats just part of normal culture in Ireland has all these laws in various different States in America.

I have never seen flags on cars in Ireland, the main funeral procession is a hearse with the coffin and then the first 10 cars after the hearse are assumed to be the funeral procession. In Dublin there is still a few funeral directors who have horse drawn carriages for the coffin.

If a cemetery is less than a mile from the Church, its still very normal for the funeral procession to walk behind the hearse.

At my aunties funeral last November, the cemetery was beside the Church, so her coffin was carried out of the Church by male members of the family down to the open grave.

I looked it up, and there's no specific special rights given to a funeral procession (of vehicles) in Ireland like there is in the United States. It's a uniquely American thing to give one specific right of way, unless it's an officially controlled escort by police.
 
The days of stopping for a funeral procession ended with Smokey and the Bandit. There is way to much traffic now. I just maintain whatever speed I'm going so as not to cause a traffic back up. If you end up behind one, well, it sucks to be you. All of us have probably had that happen at one time or the other. If you are on at least a two lane divided highway it is also encouraged to (Tee Hee) pass on by.

The problem is that a lot of people will absolutely stop in other lanes or in the opposite direction even thought not required by law. And possibly where that's obstructing traffic and can result in a traffic citation. For the most part I would think police would be more like "Just move along" and only ticket if someone really is intent on just waiting until it completely passes by.
 
The problem is that a lot of people will absolutely stop in other lanes or in the opposite direction even thought not required by law. And possibly where that's obstructing traffic and can result in a traffic citation. For the most part I would think police would be more like "Just move along" and only ticket if someone really is intent on just waiting until it completely passes by.
Ageee.

The problem is some people feel they are DISRESPECTING the departed if they do not completely stop for an opposing lane Procession.

I saw it again last week.

Law Enforcement needs to get the word out some kind of way to the people who stop that they should keep driving-they can silently pay their respects in their own way.
 
Ageee.

The problem is some people feel they are DISRESPECTING the departed if they do not completely stop for an opposing lane Procession.

I saw it again last week.

Law Enforcement needs to get the word out some kind of way to the people who stop that they should keep driving-they can silently pay their respects in their own way.
I'm pretty sure the departed will not care at all. It's a silly thing. Everyone dies, can you imagine the havoc that would ensue if every car they meet stopped until they went by. They only group that would possibly be upset about it would be the rest of the processions live occupants and they have no real reason to be upset about it.
 
Are processions still a thing when most everyone is cremated now days?
Google says 56% of Americans are choosing cremation. While a majority, that's a long way from "most everyone".
 
Something that happened this week reminded me of this thread.

A very good friend lost her oldest daughter last week. The child, 38, was born with a severe debilitating condition; never spoke, sat, walked or handled her own personal needs. My friend, her spouse, au pairs, nurses, friends and a younger sister cared for her. But her body finally had enough.

The procession from the church to the cemetery was led by a police car, then the hearse, the parents' car and various family and friend cars. The police car led the way into the cemetery (a left turn off a rural road). Before he could get back to the road to direct traffic an oncoming driver rammed the third car in the procession which held the younger sister, her spouse and two children 3 and 6. Air bags deployed. Car totaled. EMS called. Fortunately, no one was injured badly enough to transport.

Can you imagine the horror my friend felt? She is burying one daughter and almost lost another plus her only grandchildren.

The driver of the ramming car told police that he did not want to wait for the whole procession to turn so tried to speed through between cars. They estimate he was going about 45 and never hit his brakes. Needless to say, he got several tickets and I hope enough points on his license that he isn't driving for a while.

When you see a funeral procession, please remember that these people are going through one of the worst days of their lives. They are saying goodbye to a loved one. Even if you don't want to stop your car on the side of the road and stand with your hand over your heart (the tradition where I'm from), at least be respectful. The procession would have taken maybe 10 minutes to turn in and, if he had stopped, it is likely one of the cars after the family cars would have stopped and motioned him through.
 
Something that happened this week reminded me of this thread.

A very good friend lost her oldest daughter last week. The child, 38, was born with a severe debilitating condition; never spoke, sat, walked or handled her own personal needs. My friend, her spouse, au pairs, nurses, friends and a younger sister cared for her. But her body finally had enough.

The procession from the church to the cemetery was led by a police car, then the hearse, the parents' car and various family and friend cars. The police car led the way into the cemetery (a left turn off a rural road). Before he could get back to the road to direct traffic an oncoming driver rammed the third car in the procession which held the younger sister, her spouse and two children 3 and 6. Air bags deployed. Car totaled. EMS called. Fortunately, no one was injured badly enough to transport.

Can you imagine the horror my friend felt? She is burying one daughter and almost lost another plus her only grandchildren.

The driver of the ramming car told police that he did not want to wait for the whole procession to turn so tried to speed through between cars. They estimate he was going about 45 and never hit his brakes. Needless to say, he got several tickets and I hope enough points on his license that he isn't driving for a while.

When you see a funeral procession, please remember that these people are going through one of the worst days of their lives. They are saying goodbye to a loved one. Even if you don't want to stop your car on the side of the road and stand with your hand over your heart (the tradition where I'm from), at least be respectful. The procession would have taken maybe 10 minutes to turn in and, if he had stopped, it is likely one of the cars after the family cars would have stopped and motioned him through.
Glad this thread popped back up. We had a major funeral procession last week and the Highway Patrol put out an alert about. 10 miles from church to cemetery. And the question was raised........ as it was on this thread......... about why they use the Freeway instead of surface streets. Highway Patrol said the Freeway is much safer and easier to control. The freeway route included 5 on and off ramps that needed to be controlled. The most direct surface street had nearly 100 cross streets. And cross streets typically are where funeral processions have problems. Funeral processions are only allowed from 10 am to 3 pm, during off peak traffic times, and travel at 55 mph in the slow lane. The freeway is safer, quicker, and has less of an impact on people than surface streets.
 
Something that happened this week reminded me of this thread.

A very good friend lost her oldest daughter last week. The child, 38, was born with a severe debilitating condition; never spoke, sat, walked or handled her own personal needs. My friend, her spouse, au pairs, nurses, friends and a younger sister cared for her. But her body finally had enough.

The procession from the church to the cemetery was led by a police car, then the hearse, the parents' car and various family and friend cars. The police car led the way into the cemetery (a left turn off a rural road). Before he could get back to the road to direct traffic an oncoming driver rammed the third car in the procession which held the younger sister, her spouse and two children 3 and 6. Air bags deployed. Car totaled. EMS called. Fortunately, no one was injured badly enough to transport.

Can you imagine the horror my friend felt? She is burying one daughter and almost lost another plus her only grandchildren.

The driver of the ramming car told police that he did not want to wait for the whole procession to turn so tried to speed through between cars. They estimate he was going about 45 and never hit his brakes. Needless to say, he got several tickets and I hope enough points on his license that he isn't driving for a while.

When you see a funeral procession, please remember that these people are going through one of the worst days of their lives. They are saying goodbye to a loved one. Even if you don't want to stop your car on the side of the road and stand with your hand over your heart (the tradition where I'm from), at least be respectful. The procession would have taken maybe 10 minutes to turn in and, if he had stopped, it is likely one of the cars after the family cars would have stopped and motioned him through.
Sure, but that's not really part of this discussion. We were talking about etiquette here where entire lines of cars stop when approaching a funeral procession. That was about one individual jerk that was so entitled that he felt it was ok to cut in front of people making a turn in a procession. There is a difference. Even if the line had stopped that fool would have found a way to get around the rest of the cars and do the same thing. I don't know if it ever was a law that people stop for a funeral, but it isn't anymore and it shouldn't be except if the procession is turning into a street or the cemetery. but if they had police as an escort the police should have provided the protection for the funeral. That isn't respect it is just common sense. Something that humans have been lacking in the last half century.

Entitlement at it' finest! Even Sheriff Buford T. Justice wouldn't do that when in high speed pursuit of the Bandit.
 













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