Something that happened this week reminded me of this thread.
A very good friend lost her oldest daughter last week. The child, 38, was born with a severe debilitating condition; never spoke, sat, walked or handled her own personal needs. My friend, her spouse, au pairs, nurses, friends and a younger sister cared for her. But her body finally had enough.
The procession from the church to the cemetery was led by a police car, then the hearse, the parents' car and various family and friend cars. The police car led the way into the cemetery (a left turn off a rural road). Before he could get back to the road to direct traffic an oncoming driver rammed the third car in the procession which held the younger sister, her spouse and two children 3 and 6. Air bags deployed. Car totaled. EMS called. Fortunately, no one was injured badly enough to transport.
Can you imagine the horror my friend felt? She is burying one daughter and almost lost another plus her only grandchildren.
The driver of the ramming car told police that he did not want to wait for the whole procession to turn so tried to speed through between cars. They estimate he was going about 45 and never hit his brakes. Needless to say, he got several tickets and I hope enough points on his license that he isn't driving for a while.
When you see a funeral procession, please remember that these people are going through one of the worst days of their lives. They are saying goodbye to a loved one. Even if you don't want to stop your car on the side of the road and stand with your hand over your heart (the tradition where I'm from), at least be respectful. The procession would have taken maybe 10 minutes to turn in and, if he had stopped, it is likely one of the cars after the family cars would have stopped and motioned him through.