We're still driving in July...first of all, I checked Jet Blue and it is $3200 for 4 of us to fly (I am paranoid and would insist on getting a seat for my little guy who is turning 1 next week). Second of all, I do not want to lug all that stuff through the airport with two little ones in addition! Third, driving down makes our trip longer and allows us to see some things along the way. Here is our final itinerary, all booked and planned out:
Day 1: Drive from home (Brooklyn, NY) to North Carolina (9.5 hours drive, the longest driving day) & stay over
Day 2: drive to Savannah, GA (detour along the way in Columbia, SC for the children's museum) (4.5 hours drive total that day)
Day 3: Drive to Boca Raton, FL to visit relatives and friends for a few days (6 hour drive)
Day 4-7: staying in Boca Raton (should be the more relaxing part of our vacation)
Day 7: drive up to Disney (3 hour drive) and check in & go to MK
Day 8: Epcot!
Day 9: Disney Hollywood Studios!
Day 10: Animal Kingdom!
Day 11: Another day (this time a full day with morning EMH) at MK!!
Day 12: check out and have breakfast at Chef Mickey's at 7 AM (have ADR already) then hit the road; stay over in North Carolina (8 hours drive)
Day 13: drive to Maryland (outside of DC) to visit old college friends of mine (I attended UMCP) (5.5 hours driving)
Day 14: in Maryland
Day 15: head home (about 4 hours drive)
If we were flying, we would not be able to do all of these nice things! We also love road trips, especially DH! We have been doing cruises for a while, plus smaller road trips since having children. The last big road trip we took was in 2003 (BC...meaning "Before Children!") up through the New England states. We stayed in Stowe, Vermont; Bar Harbor, Maine; and NEwport, Rhode Island on a 1-week trip. We stopped in Boston for lunch between Bar Harbor and Newport. That's another road trip I would take with the kids in the future, when they are much older and would appreciate some of the things we saw. That trip was a graduation present from me to DH when he graduated from the Swedish Institute and became a licensed massage therapist. He loves road trips and those were places he had always wanted to see, so I gave that to him as a gift. He still says it was the best gift I ever gave him for an occasion! He still says it was right up his alley.
We are planning on this first road trip to WDW as a family to be the first of many! Every 2 to 3 years sounds about right for us as of now. I think the kids will be fine in the car, especially with the portable DVD player. Some people tell me I am crazy, others say we are going to have the time of our lives. I tend to listen to the latter of those comments.
I think road trips are what you make of them. If you go into a long car trip knowing you will have a wonderful time even while in the car (who isn't excited in anticipation of getting to Disneyworld?), it will be a blast! If you dread it, it might be another story. I know we are all looking forward to our trip in July. Can't wait!
--Bonnie