Someone told me before my first cruise to expect big function type of food.
I have generally found the food ok to good. It’s not as good as the WDW sit downs as the dishes are mass produced. But some are still so delicious that they are favorites amongst Disney cruiser. Food is very subjective and that’s why find so many different views.
Two things to keep in mind: ordering dishes that are easier to keep fresh after being produced I find fare better (steak being the exception, most steaks I had hab been at least good). And partly it’s to manage your expectations. The food is often a bit on the bland side.
What I like is that the meals are multiple courses. We usually get soup or salad, then appetizer and main course. We sometimes skip dessert as we find that those are where
DCL is lacking. We never skip the Grand Marnier Soufflé in Royal Palace though! It’s amazing!
Palo and Remy are different. Palo is on par with a signature restaurant at WDW. Remy can only be compared to Victoria & Alberts. If food matters to you I can highly recommend both of these.
Otherwise the fast food on the pool deck is decent. I have always enjoyed the buffet at Cabanas as there is a wide variety. At some point the pods do repeat, but I always walk all the way around to make sure to get an overview first as some things are a bit hidden.
Personally I really like the sit down dining room for breakfast and lunch as well as it is peaceful. It’s in Royal Court and you just show up during their opening hours, no reservation needed.
One good thing: if you don’t like something, your servers will happily replace it for you. And you can order as much as you want from the menu. So, it’s a great way to try things you would normally not order. I found out I love fennel. Also tell your server if your dish is not up to quality! I once got a cold soup and it was quickly replaced with a really hot one.
Also, listen to your servers‘ recommendations. They usually know which dishes are the ones that people do enjoy less. So ask them if you are undecided between two dishes.
And finally, if you want to look at menus, you can see them here:
https://disneycruiselineblog.com/menus/
Once you are onboard you can look at all the dining menus for your cruise in the app.