Flying Southwest as a family - seating OK?

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I believe I'm correct in thinking that unless you pay more to upgrade your tickets, Southwest does not do assigned seats. Do they allow families to board first?

DS is 11, but is a very nervous flyer and I can't imagine the three of us (me, DS, DH) having to split up because we couldn't get 3 seats together. I also appreciate that, at age 11, DS is older than the "families traveling with young children" who are sometimes allowed early boarding on other airlines.

Anyone have any experience with this?
 
At 11 your child is too old to qualify for early boarding. Southwest does offer a service now where they will check you in early for flights. I believe it is $15 per person, but if you want your whole family to sit together it would be well worth the added expense.
 
It is actually $10 per person. I don't use it since sitting together is not important to us. In your case, you should consider it.
 
I believe I'm correct in thinking that unless you pay more to upgrade your tickets, Southwest does not do assigned seats. Do they allow families to board first?

DS is 11, but is a very nervous flyer and I can't imagine the three of us (me, DS, DH) having to split up because we couldn't get 3 seats together. I also appreciate that, at age 11, DS is older than the "families traveling with young children" who are sometimes allowed early boarding on other airlines.

Anyone have any experience with this?

Southwest does not do assigned seats at all, no matter what type of ticket you buy. If you do buy the full fare, you will get to board first.

There are 3 boarding groups: A, B, C. Within the groups, you are given a number. That is the boarding order. You line up by your letter and number and pick a seat. A & B have 60 positions each, C is whatever is left. Families with children 4 or under can board between A & B if they do not have an A boarding pass. There is an option to pay $10 per person each way to get an "early bird" boarding pass, which will increase your chances of being in the A group. Those are assigned at 36 hours prior to the flight, in order of purchase date. Otherwise, you can check-in at 24 hours prior to the flight and your boarding # is assigned in order of check-in time.
 

Thanks a million -- I really appreciate everyone's feedback and help.
 
We've flown SW the last two trips and have never had a problem with seating. I've always been able to get the "A" boarding group by going online 24 hrs prior to depature and printing out boarding passes. With over 130 seats on the Boeing 737 there is little to worry about!:goodvibes Just be online 24 hrs prior . You can do this at a park or resort at Guest Services or on a smart phone. Relax and have a GREAT time:cool1::thumbsup2:banana:
 
We just flew to Phoenix last month. I KNEW that family boarding was for families with small children, and my kids are 9 and 11. But my dh thought he heard the SW attendant announce it was families with kids under 10. I went over and asked him, and he said, no it's for families with kids under 5 (I think that's what he said, I just remember my kids were too old). However, when the families were boarding, the attendant told us we could board too. I thought that was great!!! :) We already knew it was a full flight, and since there are 4 of us, we just assumed dh would sit with one child, and I would sit with another. That's how we always do it.

On the flight home, we didn't do the 24 hour check in. We waited until we got to the airport. We still were able to sit together. I think we got boarding tickets in the mid Bs, and this was a full flight.

HTH
 
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We just flew to Phoenix last month. I KNEW that family boarding was for families with small children, and my kids are 9 and 11. But my dh thought he heard the SW attendant announce it was families with kids under 10. I went over and asked him, and he said, no it's for families with kids under 5 (I think that's what he said, I just remember my kids were too old). However, when the families were boarding, the attendant told us we could board too. I thought that was great!!! :) We already knew it was a full flight, and since there are 4 of us, we just assumed dh would sit with one child, and I would sit with another. That's how we always do it.

On the flight home, we didn't do the 24 hour check in. We waited until we got to the airport. We still were able to sit together. I think we got boarding tickets in the mid Bs, and this was a full flight.

HTH
THe problem with allowing your family to board with those actually entitled to board in between the A and B groups, family boarding, there could have been other families with similarly aged children who didn't get that same consideration. And I have to tell you...I would be somewhat annoyed if I had B seating, and a lot of families got on with children who didn't meet the 'original criteria' for family boarding.
This is a problem with many areas....there are supposed to be rules and set policies, but employees ignore them...which is maddening for those who adhere to the policy. I know that when flying Delta or Jetblue, there is sometimes an announcement made that boarding is now open for those with children or those that need a bit of extra time to get settled.....it amazes me to see how people interpret that statement. My dd actually turned to me one time and asked why we weren't boarding with the others who had 'children'. Why? Because at 9 I didn't think she needed special boarding...no matter that others with children older than her did!! And don't start telling me that perhaps these families had children with 'hidden' issues. I actually overheard one girl, about 10 or so, questioning her father as to why they got to go on the plane now and others didn't. Dad's response??? Shhh...if they are going to let us, then we're getting on now!!!
 
THe problem with allowing your family to board with those actually entitled to board in between the A and B groups, family boarding, there could have been other families with similarly aged children who didn't get that same consideration. And I have to tell you...I would be somewhat annoyed if I had B seating, and a lot of families got on with children who didn't meet the 'original criteria' for family boarding.
This is a problem with many areas....there are supposed to be rules and set policies, but employees ignore them...which is maddening for those who adhere to the policy. I know that when flying Delta or Jetblue, there is sometimes an announcement made that boarding is now open for those with children or those that need a bit of extra time to get settled.....it amazes me to see how people interpret that statement. My dd actually turned to me one time and asked why we weren't boarding with the others who had 'children'. Why? Because at 9 I didn't think she needed special boarding...no matter that others with children older than her did!! And don't start telling me that perhaps these families had children with 'hidden' issues. I actually overheard one girl, about 10 or so, questioning her father as to why they got to go on the plane now and others didn't. Dad's response??? Shhh...if they are going to let us, then we're getting on now!!!

I'm sure if the situation was as you described, we wouldn't have been able to get on the plane early. In reality, we only got on a few people ahead of when we were "supposed" to get on. We had B passes numbered 4-8. There were only 3 families with children, and the other families went first (they had infants). I didn't think it was necessary to say "no, we won't go on. We will wait until it's our turn." It would have been 3 people to get on ahead of us! lol. Don't you ever take advantage of special perks alotted to you in life? Like free upgrades, special passes, etc.? I just saw this as something extra that we received. And we always sit in the back, so it wasn't like we took away from the business class (who always want to sit in the front).
 
I'm sure if the situation was as you described, we wouldn't have been able to get on the plane early. In reality, we only got on a few people ahead of when we were "supposed" to get on. We had B passes numbered 4-8. There were only 3 families with children, and the other families went first (they had infants). I didn't think it was necessary to say "no, we won't go on. We will wait until it's our turn." It would have been 3 people to get on ahead of us! lol. special peDon't you ever take advantage of rks alotted to you in life? Like free upgrades, special passes, etc.? I just saw this as something extra that we received. And we always sit in the back, so it wasn't like we took away from the business class (who always want to sit in the front).
Sure I do....but, not at the risk of really annoying those behind me.
Really, in all seriousness, I wasn't pointing fingers at you, but at the airline. They are the ones who disregarded their own policy. Obviously if they are going to disregard their policy and let someone board when it's against policy,it isn't the passengers duty to remind them of said policy.
My point was that it is when policy is ignored, and a lack of consistency happens that people get annoyed.
You say 'perks'...like special passes or free upgrades....well, this isn't remotely the same thing. IF the airline had said that at any given time we may ignore our policies and allow some chosen few to board earlier than they are entitled to board, then sure...that's the same thing.
But..that wasn't the case. My point was this.....lets say there are 7 other families, with children that do not meet the 'family boarding' ages...like yours. But, one family (who asked about the ages of preboarding) was allowed to just go ahead and board between the A group and the B group..now, you have those families further back in the B group, where they are supposed to be, feeling that they have been passed over. They start heading to the gate attendant's counter and asking why they can't board now....well, the gate attendant is going to pretty much have to allow them to board as well. (and we all know that those who have seen this family board early are all going to go up and find out why they weren't entitled to board then as well!!!). So, now we have the first family, with 3 kids boarding between A and B (no kids under 5), then add the other 7 families, with maybe 2-3, or more, kids getting to board. You now have a total of almost 30 people boarding when they weren't supposed to...all because a gate attendant tried to be nice.

That was my point...it really wasn't that you should have declined the offer..no one would be expected to do that. My point was that airlines, as well as other companys, tend to ignore their own policy, making it difficult to know what to expect from them. Can you imagine how a family would feel, after reading here about all those families that were allowed special priviledges of boarding early, and were shocked to get there and find out that they aren't going to be able to do that???


Personally, I still think that SW should have a special boarding pass for those with children under 5....when you purchase your airfare, you will be able to designate any under 5 children...then when you do online checkin, and get your assigned spot, you will be assigned a special boarding group due to having under 5 children. BUT....there will be a particular area of the plane that you have 'reserved'....that would most likely be towards the rear of the plane. Why? Simply because it is usually those with children that need more time to get situated (and that's the reason for earlier boarding to begin with) and then it takes them longer to get ready to get off the plane. If those with younger children were towards the rear of the plane, there would be less hold up trying to get everyone on, and off, the plane. Which means faster turnaround times for the planes.
And yes, I know this is a very unpopular thought. But, it does get tiring to have to stand there, waiting (on both ends of the flight) while families get situated and/or put together to leave the plane.

As for taking anything away from business class..you don't have to worry about that. They have paid dearly for the perk of being able to board right after the medical preboards. You aren't impacting them at all. They are paying close to double what the normal person is paying for that right to board first...in addition to other things like being fully refundable.
 
OP I really don't think you need to worry about this. IT was said that A has 60 seats, and B has 60 seats. So even if you had B, you're likely to still get 3 seats together, unless every single person that boarded was a single and sat separately...but even then I'm not sure you couldn't get 3 together. And even if there were no 3 immediately together, I'm sure you could get 2 on one side, one on the other (and frankly, sitting across the aisle from a traveling companion, unless you really have to snuggle with them, is a far easier way to chat, IMO). I really don't think this will be a problem for you.
 
I believe I'm correct in thinking that unless you pay more to upgrade your tickets, Southwest does not do assigned seats. Do they allow families to board first?

DS is 11, but is a very nervous flyer and I can't imagine the three of us (me, DS, DH) having to split up because we couldn't get 3 seats together. I also appreciate that, at age 11, DS is older than the "families traveling with young children" who are sometimes allowed early boarding on other airlines.

Anyone have any experience with this?

We have flown over 15 times on Southwest as a family of 3 and we have never once had a problem sitting together. Our son is 9..they are too excited to really worry about the plane once they get there!!!
 
Thanks again for all the encouragement -- feeling like we can give it a try :thumbsup2
 
Thanks again for all the encouragement -- feeling like we can give it a try :thumbsup2

Really, you won't have an issue. I fly SW a lot. I usually get A group, but did get a low B once. It is only when the C's board that it gets almost impossible to get 3 seats together. You can usually find 2 though. People tend to take a window or aisle seat if flying solo.
If you're really concerned, just spend the extra $10 pp and do early bird checkin. ..for each way. That way you won't have to stress about it.
 
We are a family of 4 and have not had any problems sitting together even with boarding at the end of the B numbers.
 














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