Please be sure to read my post...I never said I live in a strict HOA. In fact, I made a clear point to say that they're more lenient than others I've come across. Again, I give them credit, as HOAs go, they're OK, relatively speaking. Frankly, I'm not even sure what all the different rules are because I don't particularly care.
This isn't my first rodeo with HOAs either, so it's not "limited experience". I've owned a lot of houses of the years, we've moved a lot. DW was even one of the founding board members of an HOA (we were the second family to have a house built in the community). That ended in disaster, just not our thing. For me, even having a limit on fences, outbuildings or pools is unacceptable. For me, it's my property, my decision on what to put on it. YMMV, but for me, all HOAs are
FYI, insurance agencies don't have anything to do with paying...they just sell the policies, but I know what you're saying. And sure, trust me, I know there are a lot of people who feel that way, and that's their decision.