Flirting in Disney 101

[jadedbeauty14304]

I should really read threads before posting on them!!! LOL
I just read your story on a whim, and had no idea this thread was all about harmless flirting..LOLOLOL



i do A LOT of harmless flirting. In August I got crammed next to this man on the bus after a long night at MK. A guy had offered me his seat but this huge man was in the way. I politely declined and when the bus driver made us squish in more, the huge man and I no longer had any secrets!! LOL I smiled and said "so do you come here often?" LOL and it made for a very fun bus ride to POP.

 

[captaindavidhook]

Im a huge flirt most of the time. So flirting with a cast member is very easy for me. I think the key is make sure they are not wearing a ring lol or look like they r approachable and can carry a good conversation

 

[ANTSS2001]

Im a huge flirt most of the time. So flirting with a cast member is very easy for me. I think the key is make sure they are not wearing a ring lol or look like they r approachable and can carry a good conversation

 

[DisneyTN]

In August I got crammed next to this man on the bus after a long night at MK. A guy had offered me his seat but this huge man was in the way. I politely declined and when the bus driver made us squish in more, the huge man and I no longer had any secrets!! LOL I smiled and said "so do you come here often?" LOL and it made for a very fun bus ride to POP.

Too funny. Those "fond" moments in life when you pray everyone has put into effect the usage of deodorant. I have unfortunaltely been in similar situations when my closer-than-they-should-be neighbors had not paid close enough attention to their own personal hygeine that morning. I've never had such a painfully long 7-minute bus ride in my life.

 

[eandt]

We,married cpl, will be hitting as many of the bars and lounges as possible, also do the "drinks around the world" thing at Epcot.........since PI is now closed most likely venue at night for us will be Atlantic Dance on the BW.........feel free to flirt

 

[sand2270]

OK.. just got back from POP/WDW last Sunday.... since it was free dining... there was no problem with food... even had so many extra since I did not find myself eating as much this trip as previous.. so anyway!!!

It must have been Wednesday morning and decided to have breakfast at the food court... after doing the YMCA of course... well... I realize that I do have alot of CS left... as I was walking away... I look back and saw this guy pulling a $20 bill... so I back track and gave my card to the CM/Casher and pointed to this dude..."Ohhh I got my brother on my card" ... CM took my card and swipe... notice that he did not have any drink just the platter.. so the CM was explaining to him he gets 2 drinks with his CS... he looks so confused that he was basically standing there frozen.. so finally after a few minutes and me yelling at him " bro.. get your drink... and I am gonna go ahead I will wait for you at the table..." and so I left and went back to my room...

Thursday night.. as I was getting a frozen blue drink.. I got a tap on me shoulder... I look up and say "what the heck..." this dude was tall.. about 6 feet... He then said... "wow..wow.. sis remeber me ????" it was my chosen brother from breakfast... I then apologize that i did not recognize him and was ready to snap his finger and do kung fu by him tapping me shoulder we chit chatted.... and compared notes... so then he ask ..."whatcha doin tomorrow?" it was Friday my movie day... "Ohh..Ohh.. what are you watching... can I come ?? my treat since you paid for my breakfast" me = "sorry I dotn watch movie with strangers and then chuckle he said.. Oh Ok.. I understand... "what about lunch... do you still have free lunch ???" I said yeah... why ?? "So where are we having lunch ?" Me: I know I am eating at Raglan road.. "Ok... what time" he said... around 2PM !!! and soooooooo after my 1st movie .. walking towards Ragland Road... guess who was sitting next to Tin Man??? Patrick.. yes we are on 1st name basis by that time.... and he did pay for his own lunch and even paid for my appetizer To make the long story short... See what happens when you share your credits????? I found me a new friend... we went on our separate ways and agreed to keep in touch via email.. I even suggested he joins the disboard!!!!

You should teach a seminar...I am so bad in the flirting arena LOL.

 

[ANTSS2001]

You should teach a seminar...I am so bad in the flirting arena LOL.

I guess in all my previous scenario.. it is just because I have a big mouth and end up chatting with everyone... the key thing is be yourself and enjoy meeting peeps... and the best place to do that is at the World...

My friend left last Friday to be at the World... and so far she had use the pin trick... the fan trick.... and save my spot on the line trick... and had work for her I told her by the time she gets back I better get a check...

 

[sand2270]

I guess in all my previous scenario.. it is just because I have a big mouth and end up chatting with everyone... the key thing is be yourself and enjoy meeting peeps... and the best place to do that is at the World...

My friend left last Friday to be at the World... and so far she had use the pin trick... the fan trick.... and save my spot on the line trick... and had work for her I told her by the time she gets back I better get a check...

You should start charging for your tips...you could make a fortune!

 

[wlhei]

flirt? OMG

 

[ANTSS2001]

flirt? OMG

are you from Ohio or Fl by any chance ???

 

[eandt]

We 44m 41f will be at Atlantic Dance Hall and POP Pool bar Nov 9-15.......feel free to flirt away!!

 

[DisneyTN]

Have any of you encountered this probelm:

You try to be genuinely nice and polite to people. Yet many times, it can be taken as flirting when it is actually just manners. (??)

 

[Mousecop]

We can all drink Maragaritas and eat Cheeseburgers in that Paradise and then later Get Drunk And.... um... well...

Have Boat Drinks? In One Particular Harbor? Just Breathe In, Breathe Out, Move On.

Big nose huh? Wouldn't happen to be the round red foam type with a few sparkles added & you glue on with spirit gum?

Actually, it's a little known secret, but the big nose is my real nose. Just clever concealing makes it appear like the picture!!

They say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach,

If your surgeon tells you this, find another one!

Of course, this entire thread is made up of flirting! Are you sure we need a professor? If we get one, are we granted a Fh.d when we graduate?

 

[Disneyfan71]

When I was single and went to WDW, the best places to flirt are in line You could be genuinely scared to ride say Space Mountain or something...get a guy (single of course) and well!!!!

 

[kesharn81]

nice way to learn things and implement..
good work..

 

[acm563]

..and I might add you are never too young to start perfecting the art. My son, who is now 26, at the age of 2 would climb up on his dresser so he could look in the mirror for an hour combing his hair before we would go out to dinner and then if a female was coming in or out the door as we got to the restaurant he would look up at her with his then big blue eyes and say adoringly..."Where have you been all of my life" Needless to say he has always been a hit with the ladies and while I understand where he could have learned to flirt from I have no idea where he came up with that at the age of 2. I think we sometimes tho miss the difference between flirting with someone and "hitting" on someone. Flirting is indeed an art form, and is did more for the pure enjoyment and ego boosting of both parties with no real intention of it ever going farther than just words and so therefore it never "creeps" anyone out.... I have never been offended by anyone flirting with me, but I have been offended repeatedly over the years by people who have "hit" on me....
So, my motto is make someone smile and flirt away, you never know whos day you may have just brightened................ (but please dont "hit" on anyone unless you think your attentions will be appreciated)

 

[TortugaDave]

I am going to try flirting when I got th WDW in Feburary, but it seems weird now that I am single again. My son may not be happy with me if I try, but the thought about going down to Disney has been one of the few things that have keptme going through my divorce.

 

[sand2270]

I am going to try flirting when I got th WDW in Feburary, but it seems weird now that I am single again. My son may not be happy with me if I try, but the thought about going down to Disney has been one of the few things that have keptme going through my divorce.

I think as long as you are just being friendly or nice your son should be fine . My daughter loves meeting other little kids, so if someone started talking to me that had a child around her age and the kids were friendly with each other, she would honestly care less what I was doing LOL.

 

[JohnEric]

I think I've done some unintentional flirting at the parks, especially MK. I've been there often enough that I know my way around, so if I see someone who is looking a bit lost, I try to be helpful... considering the reactions I've gotten from a few women, I think that sometimes that's been perceived as flirting. (So, one way to flirt is... be helpful!)

As for standing in line... as has been stated, that's a great place to get to know someone. Conversation is much easier when you know that you'll be next to one another for the next 40 minutes waiting for the line at Peter Pan to actually move forward. I mean, what else is there to do but talk? When I'm at the park solo, sometimes I'll forgo the Fastpass so that I can meet people in line. I remember one conversation... we just met in line, and went our separate ways after the ride; but to this day, it's still a special moment to me.

For people looking for conversation starters, sometimes it's nice to just ask where the person is from, how many times they've been there, what's been the best experience so far, and so on. If the person with whom you're speaking has a child, it's much easier... give the young person an opportunity to share his or her experience, and you'll all be talking for quite a while!

I believe that dreams can come true for the grown-ups as well. If you can allow yourself to experience the delight of a day at the park, I think that people will be drawn to you... and then you do not need to worry about flirting; others will be happy just to be around you.

 

[Goofy4Disney!]

I am going to try flirting when I got th WDW in Feburary, but it seems weird now that I am single again. My son may not be happy with me if I try, but the thought about going down to Disney has been one of the few things that have keptme going through my divorce.

I totally stink at flirting too. But part of this comment made me laugh. You mean it wasn't weird to flirt when you were married, it's only weird now that you're single? Just kidding, I know what you mean.

Sorry, couldn't help myself.