Buying a home is the biggest purchase your going to make.
We looked for a year, before we decided to build a new house. I spent hours and hours looking on line, and we went to a ton of open houses, Depending on where you live this might be a option for you, there are lots of townhome, condo's, patio home, communities that are going up right now. For us we went with single family.
Do not rush the process.... slow down, take your time...
Tip 1 - just don't depend on the realtor to show you what you want. You need to get very specific in what your needs are. Make a priority list. This way you both know what the goal is.... If you want move in ready, and they keep showing you fixer's, then the realtor is not on the same page as you are, you need to find someone else. If you only want a certain area or do you just need to be close to a highway, or public transportation, is the school zoning what is important. It so much more than how many bedrooms, and baths.
Tip 2 - be realistic - what you want to spend... and what that price point gets you... might not be the same thing.... in the area you want to be in...
Tip 3 - do the math, if you spend this amount what will your house payment be... then go up in price, you might be surprised that you might be able to afford more in the monthly payment.
Tip 4 - HOA fees, look at what you get the amenities, as well as the condition of those amenities. this is a big hint if the HOA does keeps up with everything, Were we live we have really great amenities, and they were the ones we wanted and were willing to pay for, resort style pool, club house, on site gym a really nice one with current equipment, tv's in the machines and such, really nice play ground area for the kids, several small parks for dog walking with doggie doo stations through out our community. Look at the common area, are the mowed, edged, and the plant beds in good condition, ride through at night, are the street lights working. This the trash picked up.
Tip 5 - Cruise neighborhoods, that you think you might like to live in, look for how the neighborhoods are really living.
Tip 6 - Parking, dedicated parking spots... if you have guest where do they park? especially in town-home or condo communities
Tip 7 - Home owner insurance cost - do not skimp here, again this is the biggest purchase you make, make sure its covered... As well ask question about special insurance, for things like hurricanes, natural disaster, replacement insurance, flood insurance.
Tip 8 - If you want in a certain area, and that area is hot or super popular at the moment, maybe look at a up and coming area.
Tip 9 - check out property taxes, homestead exemption, if its a current property ask what the light, gas, water, trash bills run... then double check them. Most states you can see what the electric will cost you...
Tip 10 - What the list price on a house is not written in stone, use zillow or other sites to see what they say about what the house is listed at. When you make a offer, don't take it personal if the seller rejects your offer, if they come back with a counter offer, if its not right for you, you do not have to accept, just decline the offer and move on...
Tip 11 - Don't use words like, I love it, or I can see us living here, it's perfect... use those words for at home away from the realtors. Keep your game face on...
Tip 12 - Make sure you know what closing cost are going to look like,
Tip 13 - Get a home inspection use someone you choose/hire.... it's worth it to pay more as they are working for you, and you alone... Make sure they are licensed... and see what they reviews have to say...
Tip 14 - this is not a race, take your time, go over all the fine print...
Tip 15 - Keep your eyes and ears open... WOW the neighbors dog sure barked the whole time we were touring that house, or the music is blasting down the street in the middle of the day... I could hear the neighborhood toilet flushing... Let your nose lead you.... if it smells like someone was smoking what could that cost us to get rid of? or a damp, moldy smell... is there mold behind the wall, water leak... use your eyes look up... water marks, uneven flooring, look in the bathtubs and shower areas, around window and doors...
Tip 16 - If you find somewhere you like and are thinking of pulling the trigger, drive through the neighborhood at night, early evening, even around midnight or later... so you know really what it would be like living there.