I gave both my goddaughter and godson a nice gold cross & chain when they made their first communion - i wanted them to have nice keepsake. He didn't wear his as much when he was younger but he's in his mid 20's now and wears it all the time. My goddaughter has pretty much always worn hers and she's now 13. If you decide to go that route, I would check to see if he prefers to wear silver or gold (perhaps his parents can answer that better for you if you plan to surprise him). Another thought would be money. This is something I have given all my nephews and nieces over the years. Hope that helps! Good luck!