I was able to locate earlier times once I selected the "suggested" fast pass options. I have read many threads, discussions, and FAQs on the FP+ but missed this. So I feel I have done my homework, but thank you to those who thought otherwise, those are helpful posts.
Disney websites have always been frustrating to me. The fact that my Disney experience is different depending on if you're on a phone, tablet, or computer is annoying (I think CMs feel they same based on phone conversations).
We have been to WDW many times, and we are DVC owners. In the past we arrived at rope drop to get on the most popular rides, then got fast passes for later. When we hop, we go to the second park in the evening, sometimes get fast passes, sometimes not. As I stated in the original post, I don't like that you have to choose all 3 fast passes in the same park. If someone adds hopping to their ticket they should be able to book fast passes at multiple parks in the same day. This is just my opinion.
Since DS will graduate next year this will probably be our last family trip to WDW. After this we may just use our points to cruise. Which is good, frees up space for others at WDW.