I would recommend Chef Mickey's for breakfast to see the whole Fab Five. It is the only spot on property that has them all together in one spot.
I would recommend Askerhaus for a princess dinner. It is only one credit and the princess interaction is great.
And I highly recommend Hoop Dee Doo Review for your family. Your children are great ages for it.
It is an All You Care To Eat Western Themed dinner and show. The food is really good "down home cooking". The meal is: corn bread and butter, salad, fried chicken, ribs, baked beans, corn, mashed potatoes, and strawberry shortcake for dessert. The price includes tax and gratuity and all you want beverages, including beer, wine and sangria.
The show is high energy, singing dancing and audience participation. It is full of corny jokes. Folks of all ages love it.
I have been with my core family when my children were young, about the same ages yours are now. I had the pleasure of going with the oldest DS as he took his 2 young children to experience something he loved when he was young. And I have been with just adults 30's - 60's and everyone had a Blast each time!!!!
Enjoy