Favorite memory

[Sparx]

Nope. Thats why I would hope she reads threads like this and figures it out. That way it might speed it up a little bit.

Also if she did find out that I like her, it would be like, way out of left field if you catch my drift.

Having been in a very similar situation, I have one piece of advice that I wish I'd followed. Carpe Diem. You don't wanna live every day with the "what ifs" and the "maybes" and you don't want to be with someone, only to be wishing you were with her.

 

[2HOT2touch]

i think you should just tell her. dont give clues, she might not get them(cuz i know i wouldnt) just straight up tell her you like her or ask her out.

 

[MuNkY]

i think you should just tell her. dont give clues, she might not get them(cuz i know i wouldnt) just straight up tell her you like her or ask her out.

I don't want to come on too strong. Can you imagine what it would be like if I just suddenly said, "hey I like you and I've had a huge crush on you sence the 6th grade and will you go out with me?". Don't want to scare her away you know.

I seem to have an uncanny ability to reel girls in online. I'm going to try to get her add me to AIM, and see if I can work my magic.

But anyways, if I finally do throw the snowball down the hill, and it starts to pick up snow, then I'll have a family full of female cousins, and a dis forum full of girls to consult to.

 

[Sparx]

I seem to have an uncanny ability to reel girls in online. I'm going to try to get her add me to AIM, and see if I can work my magic.
.

Its easy to talk to people online. You've just got this box to type into. and you can change and rethink what you want to say as much as you want. You don't get tounge tied, or mix things up (unless you are me, obviously ) if it makes sense, it is easier to be yourself online.

 

[MuNkY]

Its easy to talk to people online. You've just got this box to type into. and you can change and rethink what you want to say as much as you want. You don't get tounge tied, or mix things up (unless you are me, obviously ) if it makes sense, it is easier to be yourself online.

Exactly. What she sees at school really isn't me, and I want her to know that.

 

[2HOT2touch]

I don't want to come on too strong. Can you imagine what it would be like if I just suddenly said, "hey I like you and I've had a huge crush on you sence the 6th grade and will you go out with me?". Don't want to scare her away you know.

I seem to have an uncanny ability to reel girls in online. I'm going to try to get her add me to AIM, and see if I can work my magic.

But anyways, if I finally do throw the snowball down the hill, and it starts to pick up snow, then I'll have a family full of female cousins, and a dis forum full of girls to consult to.

ok, but i my experience, people are different online than they are in person(no offense)




ok for my story about my dad.
I was five years old. It was the winter of 1996. ok my dad had dieabetes since he was 15, and it was really severe after I was born, but he tried his hardest to keep it good, so that he could spend more time with me, because I was his only child. that night my mom was putting me to bed and my dad called my mom out into the living room. When my mom got there my dad told her to call an ambulence because he couldnt feel his arm and so he thought he was having a heart attach. then he started to hit himself in the head, because he had an extremely bad headache that I bet no one on here has ever experienced(he was having a stroke) so then after my mom called the ambulence my dad asked my mom to bring me out into the living room so he could see me for the last time.( he knew he was dieing) and so i went into the living room and sat on the couch and then i heard a bunch of sirens saw alot of flashing lights through the window. and then a bunch of people rushed in throught the front door. and started putting tubes like in my dad and took his blood preasure and blood sugar. and then put him on the stretcher and brought him to the hospital. then my mom brought me to my babysitters and she went to the hospital and i slept over at my babysitters. I wasn't even crying when all of that happened, becuase i was so young and he had gone to the hospital before and had come back fine. and plus i got to sleepover my babysitter's whom i loved. but now when ever i think back to it, i cry alot. and so my dad was in the hospital for a couple of weeks and then he died on feb.13,1996 and that was the day before they were going to transfer him to a place where they put people that are dieing and they can't save them. So I have 2 theories. one when he found out they couldnt do anymore for him, he decided that it was okay for him to finally give up ad stop holding on. and second since he died the day before valentine's day and he never wanted me to ever date, that thats why i have never had a real valentine.

 

[Sparx]

ok for my story about my dad.
I was five years old. It was the winter of 1996. ok my dad had dieabetes since he was 15, and it was really severe after I was born, but he tried his hardest to keep it good, so that he could spend more time with me, because I was his only child. that night my mom was putting me to bed and my dad called my mom out into the living room. When my mom got there my dad told her to call an ambulence because he couldnt feel his arm and so he thought he was having a heart attach. then he started to hit himself in the head, because he had an extremely bad headache that I bet no one on here has ever experienced(he was having a stroke) so then after my mom called the ambulence my dad asked my mom to bring me out into the living room so he could see me for the last time.( he knew he was dieing) and so i went into the living room and sat on the couch and then i heard a bunch of sirens saw alot of flashing lights through the window. and then a bunch of people rushed in throught the front door. and started putting tubes like in my dad and took his blood preasure and blood sugar. and then put him on the stretcher and brought him to the hospital. then my mom brought me to my babysitters and she went to the hospital and i slept over at my babysitters. I wasn't even crying when all of that happened, becuase i was so young and he had gone to the hospital before and had come back fine. and plus i got to sleepover my babysitter's whom i loved. but now when ever i think back to it, i cry alot. and so my dad was in the hospital for a couple of weeks and then he died on feb.13,1996 and that was the day before they were going to transfer him to a place where they put people that are dieing and they can't save them. So I have 2 theories. one when he found out they couldnt do anymore for him, he decided that it was okay for him to finally give up ad stop holding on. and second since he died the day before valentine's day and he never wanted me to ever date, that thats why i have never had a real valentine.

I'm very sorry that you went through that. I've lost friends and family, so I have a vauge idea of what you went through, and are still goign through.
It never stops hurting. It just hurts a little less each day. Someday you will be able to think about him and smile. He loved you. And he would wnat you to remember him fondly and beable to think abotu him without crying. But sometimes crying is all you can do. I am truely sorry.

 

[DisneyGirl421]

My memories...

+DCL '05 - Andrew being a girl, moshing in the elevators, meredith the stalker, the note, streaking, did you wash your hands?, and the best line of the entire cruise - THAT SLUT!... how I miss everyone SO much.

+Disney World Band Trip my frosh year - marching down Main Street is an amazing feeling. Can't wait to go again with band in May!

+Summer of '04 - "Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat" - AMAZING cast. I loved every minute of it, and wish I could relive that summer. I <33 my BCCT crew.

+Freshman Leadership Weekend - a weekend camp retreat I got invited to go to. So much fun, and so many memories. Ben and the guitar, Group 2 rules!, Jenny from the block, HOLLERR, 8 sneezes, the experience... SO glad I got chosen as a senior this year to facilitate this! cant wait till april...

 

[Princess Ash]

Wow Kristy...I can't even fathom that. You are very strong for continuing to go on after that...

My favorite memories...
WOW...I just can't list them all, there's too many! You have like...no idea, seriously!!!

All of my formal dances...
Valentine's Day the past two years (one I spent a day in NYC with my (now ex-) bf and one I spent with the same guy as he planned a whole day)
Taking a day trip to Block Island with this guy.
Going to Foxwoods and Mohegan Sun (Casinos) with my best guy friend
Driving to the beach at 2AM until 4AM to watch the sunrise with my best guy friend
My surprise 16th birthday party
When I first heard "I love you" from someone
OF COURSE DISNEY TRIPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SOoooooOOooooooOOO many others to list...just tooo many...

 

[Daisymae26]

ok, but i my experience, people are different online than they are in person(no offense)




ok for my story about my dad.
I was five years old. It was the winter of 1996. ok my dad had dieabetes since he was 15, and it was really severe after I was born, but he tried his hardest to keep it good, so that he could spend more time with me, because I was his only child. that night my mom was putting me to bed and my dad called my mom out into the living room. When my mom got there my dad told her to call an ambulence because he couldnt feel his arm and so he thought he was having a heart attach. then he started to hit himself in the head, because he had an extremely bad headache that I bet no one on here has ever experienced(he was having a stroke) so then after my mom called the ambulence my dad asked my mom to bring me out into the living room so he could see me for the last time.( he knew he was dieing) and so i went into the living room and sat on the couch and then i heard a bunch of sirens saw alot of flashing lights through the window. and then a bunch of people rushed in throught the front door. and started putting tubes like in my dad and took his blood preasure and blood sugar. and then put him on the stretcher and brought him to the hospital. then my mom brought me to my babysitters and she went to the hospital and i slept over at my babysitters. I wasn't even crying when all of that happened, becuase i was so young and he had gone to the hospital before and had come back fine. and plus i got to sleepover my babysitter's whom i loved. but now when ever i think back to it, i cry alot. and so my dad was in the hospital for a couple of weeks and then he died on feb.13,1996 and that was the day before they were going to transfer him to a place where they put people that are dieing and they can't save them. So I have 2 theories. one when he found out they couldnt do anymore for him, he decided that it was okay for him to finally give up ad stop holding on. and second since he died the day before valentine's day and he never wanted me to ever date, that thats why i have never had a real valentine.

Kristy, that story was so touching it made me cry! I cannot even imagine how much pain you felt. But now you know that your dad is watching out for you.

 

[The Dark Dancer]

ok for my story about my dad.
I was five years old. It was the winter of 1996. ok my dad had dieabetes since he was 15, and it was really severe after I was born, but he tried his hardest to keep it good, so that he could spend more time with me, because I was his only child. that night my mom was putting me to bed and my dad called my mom out into the living room. When my mom got there my dad told her to call an ambulence because he couldnt feel his arm and so he thought he was having a heart attach. then he started to hit himself in the head, because he had an extremely bad headache that I bet no one on here has ever experienced(he was having a stroke) so then after my mom called the ambulence my dad asked my mom to bring me out into the living room so he could see me for the last time.( he knew he was dieing) and so i went into the living room and sat on the couch and then i heard a bunch of sirens saw alot of flashing lights through the window. and then a bunch of people rushed in throught the front door. and started putting tubes like in my dad and took his blood preasure and blood sugar. and then put him on the stretcher and brought him to the hospital. then my mom brought me to my babysitters and she went to the hospital and i slept over at my babysitters. I wasn't even crying when all of that happened, becuase i was so young and he had gone to the hospital before and had come back fine. and plus i got to sleepover my babysitter's whom i loved. but now when ever i think back to it, i cry alot. and so my dad was in the hospital for a couple of weeks and then he died on feb.13,1996 and that was the day before they were going to transfer him to a place where they put people that are dieing and they can't save them. So I have 2 theories. one when he found out they couldnt do anymore for him, he decided that it was okay for him to finally give up ad stop holding on. and second since he died the day before valentine's day and he never wanted me to ever date, that thats why i have never had a real valentine.

Kristy, Your story is very touching and It really made me cry! I'm so sorry that that happened to you. You are a very strong (emotionally) person and I admire your courage. I don't know what I'd do without my Mom; She's like, one of my best friends...

We're always here if you ever need to talk, Kristy; Always remember that!

 

[Cinderella94]

Kristy, you are very strong to be able to keep moving forward after having that happen. I haven't ever experienced a close death, but even though I don't personally know how you feel, I am always here to talk, just like everyone else here is. That story made me cry! I am so sorry.

 

[2HOT2touch]

aw, thanks everyone. it sucks that i don't know anyone that hasgone through even close to what i have went through and what i am going throught now. like i have friends that their fathers have died too. but they were completely different situations. and to add to my situation, i didnt talk to my dads family for 10 years after he died and just recently i saw my grandmother, whom lives in the same town as me and always has, for the first time in 10 years. and i think she is dieing, and i am afraid to get to close to her, and just have her taken away from me too.

 

[The Dark Dancer]

aw, thanks everyone. it sucks that i don't know anyone that hasgone through even close to what i have went through and what i am going throught now. like i have friends that their fathers have died too. but they were completely different situations. and to add to my situation, i didnt talk to my dads family for 10 years after he died and just recently i saw my grandmother, whom lives in the same town as me and always has, for the first time in 10 years. and i think she is dieing, and i am afraid to get to close to her, and just have her taken away from me too.

Aww. Kristy. I'm so sorry to hear that! I'm not sure what I would do in that situation. So sorry I'm not much help....Hopefully someone else on here can give you better advice on this.

We're all here for you girl