We haven't done any values- so I can't speak to that. This is not because I am not interested- but with a double stroller and little people with us- I have come to the realization that proximity is critical to us- this helps avoid meltdowns, heat, crowds, over sensory overload. Also, for us (we have similar ages) the splash pad and pool are important as well.
For your kiddos- I would enjoy the following:
Moderate: POFQ/POR
Deluxe: Grand Floridian, Polynesian, Animal Kingdom Lodge
(out of the Epcot resorts we enjoy the Boardwalk Inn- but only in the cooler months bc there is no splash pad. BC/YC the pool area is a little too chaotic for our kids).