Fat Acceptance...

[Goobergal99]

Yup. If health insurance was only for people who were guaranteed to never get sick...there wouldn't be health insurance.

Seriously

I work in healthcare... so my premiums are set anyway.... so feel free to weigh whatever you want it isn't hurting my pocket book....

I am happily 10 pounds overweight myself.... I figure that way if I get sick, I have a lil wiggle room

 

[Mahnahmahnah]

umm wow....you really don't know what the heck is going on here at all. The "VVVV" (ITS IN ARROW!) was pointing to the original post that i was trying to make a disagreement about. Seriously!

And how about actually understanding my posts and not taking such carelessness in your posts. Ever hear the saying "think before you speak"???? well its not really speak but type. You know what im saying.

And yay congratz you got in a fight with a 15 year-old. Let go have a party

Hey - Addicted to Speed:

Just wanted to let you know that sometimes adults make mistakes. PrincessKsMom realized and apoligized for it so no harm done

Sometimes adults do what is called "Open mouth - Insert foot". You can start practicing now, cause you'll do it as an adult too, I can assure you of that.

I'm very sorry if it is you in that situation you described. Or even if you know someone in that situation.

Most Mom's would NEVER want to hurt their children. Most of us would rather die than see you guys hurtin. Quite possibly the mom you are referring to had some type of psychological/stress/emotional exhaustion problem that contributed to all those things you describe. Some mom's do have issues like this. This does not mean that she is not guilty for some things,she may very well be. Mom's make mistakes too One of the hardest things I ever did in my life was quit smoking. It is an addiction worse than heroin. Don't EVER smoke a butt.

Eating & smoking may have been her "feel good" from the stress, you may even feel she put those things first, but sometimes the brain plays tricks that I can not even begin to explain to you. Since you have not experienced adult stress yet- it may be hard for you to understand.

So could it contribute? - Yes and no.


I hope I made some sense - I just wanted to try to answer you, and I am sure there are people MUCH better/ more qualified than I that can help you. Stay a kid as long as possible.

 

[Barbossa]

umm wow....you really don't know what the heck is going on here at all. The "VVVV" (ITS IN ARROW!) was pointing to the original post that i was trying to make a disagreement about. Seriously!

And how about actually understanding my posts and not taking such carelessness in your posts. Ever hear the saying "think before you speak"???? well its not really speak but type. You know what im saying.

And yay congratz you got in a fight with a 15 year-old. Let go have a party

Why are we coddling this kid? Would someone smack him or her upside the head, please?

 

[Mahnahmahnah]

Why are we coddling this kid? Would someone smack him or her upside the head, please?

Where you trying to be funny? I'm not sure.....

I don't think I was coddling the kid. Was I? Most 15 yr olds talk like this. He's just trying to be funny. I just wanted to explain an answer for the kid.

PrincessKsMom apoligized and felt bad and I don't think he "got" that. Most kids his age don't. I have lots of family around his age so I understand.

And if that question the kid asked was about what he has been through, than that is a horrible situation.

 

[darlak]

You know, I think they should just ship all the fat people off to their own island somewhere so we can stop making them "worry" about our health and stop being such a blight in their eyes.

Boy, that actually sounds too good to be true. PLEASE!!! Send us to that island. I'd gladly be first in line.

Wait! I wanna come too! That is unless you’re discriminating against thinner people since at 131 I’m not sure I qualify. One thing’s for sure, at least if you can judge by reading this thread, that island is where most of the NICE people are going to be.

 

[Addicted.to.Speed]

My apologies if I misunderstood your intention. I don't know all the jargon on posting boards so "VVVVVV" meant absolutely nothing to me, but usually when someone quotes and then responds below, it means they are responding to the quote. Since you quoted me, then responded, then quoted someone else and responded, I assumed your response below my quote was intended for me. Being the adult that I am, I have no problem with apologizing when I'm wrong. I don't get any pleasure from "fighting" with a 15 year old. BTW, I could care less if you're 15 or 50, everyone is entitled to an opinion, so don't go getting a chip on your shoulder that the adults are picking on you.

It's okay, i did overeact(sp) on this situation and i shall further explain my posts with more maturity from now on.

Hey - Addicted to Speed:

Just wanted to let you know that sometimes adults make mistakes. PrincessKsMom realized and apoligized for it so no harm done

Sometimes adults do what is called "Open mouth - Insert foot". You can start practicing now, cause you'll do it as an adult too, I can assure you of that.

I'm very sorry if it is you in that situation you described. Or even if you know someone in that situation.

Most Mom's would NEVER want to hurt their children. Most of us would rather die than see you guys hurtin. Quite possibly the mom you are referring to had some type of psychological/stress/emotional exhaustion problem that contributed to all those things you describe. Some mom's do have issues like this. This does not mean that she is not guilty for some things,she may very well be. Mom's make mistakes too One of the hardest things I ever did in my life was quit smoking. It is an addiction worse than heroin. Don't EVER smoke a butt.

Eating & smoking may have been her "feel good" from the stress, you may even feel she put those things first, but sometimes the brain plays tricks that I can not even begin to explain to you. Since you have not experienced adult stress yet- it may be hard for you to understand.

So could it contribute? - Yes and no.


I hope I made some sense - I just wanted to try to answer you, and I am sure there are people MUCH better/ more qualified than I that can help you. Stay a kid as long as possible.

No, no this is not the situation im in at all. I have both my parents and 2 siblings that i love dearly.
I never plan on smoking my whole entire life and if i ever did i would use the guidence from people like you to stop

Why are we coddling this kid? Would someone smack him or her upside the head, please?

If its worth anything im sorry about the way you feel and im no longer going to disrupt this thread.

I apologize for my inmaturity on this thread and i hope you guys can forgive me

 

[OzFan]

Perhaps they will even have free dining there!
Buffets and turkey legs Oh My!

Please tell me you're kidding. That is NOT NICE!

 

[Mahnahmahnah]

It's okay, i did overeact(sp) on this situation and i shall further explain my posts with more maturity from now on.



No, no this is not the situation im in at all. I have both my parents and 2 siblings that i love dearly.
I never plan on smoking my whole entire life and if i ever did i would use the guidence from people like you to stop



If its worth anything im sorry about the way you feel and im no longer going to disrupt this thread.

I apologize for my inmaturity on this thread and i hope you guys can forgive me

Oh - good - I'm breathing a big sigh of relief. Mom's worry about a lot of crap, too.

Good for you on smoking because if I was your Mom and I caught yah, I would be forced to hog-tie you and throw you in a "Debate" thread and then take away all your DIS privileges!

You're not disrupting ! Everyone has a right to an opinion.


Here - have a donut.....

 

[MushyMushy]

Please tell me you're kidding. That is NOT NICE!

But it so clearly demonstrates the type of abuse the obese face day in and day out.

 

[Barbossa]

If its worth anything im sorry about the way you feel and im no longer going to disrupt this thread.

I apologize for my inmaturity on this thread and i hope you guys can forgive me

And I apologize for my remarks. Respect and courtesy is always a good thing, regardless of our age (which is 48 for me, and I'm still learning).

 

[PrincessKsMom]

Hey - Addicted to Speed:

Just wanted to let you know that sometimes adults make mistakes. PrincessKsMom realized and apoligized for it so no harm done

Sometimes adults do what is called "Open mouth - Insert foot". You can start practicing now, cause you'll do it as an adult too, I can assure you of that.

I'm very sorry if it is you in that situation you described. Or even if you know someone in that situation.

Most Mom's would NEVER want to hurt their children. Most of us would rather die than see you guys hurtin. Quite possibly the mom you are referring to had some type of psychological/stress/emotional exhaustion problem that contributed to all those things you describe. Some mom's do have issues like this. This does not mean that she is not guilty for some things,she may very well be. Mom's make mistakes too One of the hardest things I ever did in my life was quit smoking. It is an addiction worse than heroin. Don't EVER smoke a butt.

Eating & smoking may have been her "feel good" from the stress, you may even feel she put those things first, but sometimes the brain plays tricks that I can not even begin to explain to you. Since you have not experienced adult stress yet- it may be hard for you to understand.

So could it contribute? - Yes and no.


I hope I made some sense - I just wanted to try to answer you, and I am sure there are people MUCH better/ more qualified than I that can help you. Stay a kid as long as possible.

Thanks for helping to smooth things over. I've been afflicted with "Open mouth -- Insert Foot" disease for quite some time! Thanks too to addicted.to.speed for being gracious in accepting my apology. Please don't ever think that all adults are idiots, we actually take turns!

 

[Mahnahmahnah]

Thanks for helping to smooth things over. I've been afflicted with "Open mouth -- Insert Foot" disease for quite some time! Thanks too to addicted.to.speed for being gracious in accepting my apology. Please don't ever think that all adults are idiots, we actually take turns!

Your welcome

I wonder if there is a recovery program for that "Open mouth -- Insert Foot" disease?

 

[OzFan]

Your welcome

I wonder if there is a recovery program for that "Open mouth -- Insert Foot" disease?

There sure is...it's on the "Island" with all the fat people. Hey, I'll save you a place in line behind me at the buffet. You can hold my turkey leg while I overfill my plate.

 

[smidgy]

If its worth anything im sorry about the way you feel and im no longer going to disrupt this thread.

I apologize for my inmaturity on this thread and i hope you guys can forgive me

you are NOT disrupting this thread, and you have NOT been immature.