Wow...I don't think it's possible for you to be more off base..
Flowers - It is truly amazing how often WDW swaps out flowers for different seasons and the landscaping at the parks is nothing short of breathtaking. there's probably millions of flowers at WDW and it is incredible the attention they pay to this detail. For one, walk down the Canada pavillion towards Le Cellier and look around. For another, the GF had a bouquet the size of small automobile at the top of the grand staircase last week. Gorgeous. there are too many other examples to get into.
Merchandise - have you even been to WDW recently? every resort has resort specific merchandise only found at that resort. I don't recall seeing ToT stuff sold anywhere but at the shop at Tot...same for RNRC, SM and others...you want Christmas stuff? you have two choices: DTD and MK. The sheer volume of merchandise is MINDBLOWING...what more could you possibly want?
Dining - so ....what are you saying? the French Onion soup at Chefs de France can be had elsewhere? Don't think so. Neither can the short ribs. or anything on that menu. tell me all the places you can get a lobster roll at WDW? or is it just Columbia Harbor House? How about dole Whip? Are those everywhere? I could go one and on and on. BUT, if you are saying you eat french fries and chicken fingers then yes I agree, those are generic.
Tarps/Chipped paint - so let me get this straight - you are simultaneously criticizing WDW for both the wear and tear on paint, and also the fact that they have to fix it ? This is idiocy of the highest order.
Broken rides/ride closures - see previous point.
oh....and Have a Magical Day!