A huge thanks to
@Robo @mesaboy2 and
@hiroMYhero for your help on these threads! My 60 day opened last night and thanks to your tips I was able to get everything I wanted. A couple of things that were particularly helpful:
1. Despite
MDE saying otherwise, my 60 day window DID open from the first night of our split stay even though the first night is a room only reservation. If I hadn't read here that the window should open last night, I would have assumed MDE and the CM I talked to on the phone were correct and it wouldn't open until my package stay.
2. Copying FastPass+ reservations is THE best tip, hands down. It's not very clear to a newbie how to do it, so I wouldn't have known it was an option if I hadn't read about it here. Anna and Elsa was only available on our last day and the only times it gave me were after we have to leave to catch the Magic Express back home. My sister-in-law is linked in my family and friends though and she had gotten an earlier time. Going one at a time, I was able to copy their reservation to each of my family and it allowed us to get the earlier Anna and Elsa time too!!
3. Checking
http://www.thedibb.co.uk/forums/showthread.php?t=835236 and start making hard to get FastPasses on our latest day. By checking Dibb I knew that the only availability for A&E was our last day. So instead of going chronologically through our trip, I started on our last day to snag those last available A&E fastpasses.
Thank you for taking the time to share all these great tips and advice!