Except for the last night, I think your cruise went well. I am so sorry the cruise had to end on a bad note.
I know that the meds that are used to treat seizure disorders are some of the same meds that are used to treat bipolar. I have seen some of the mood swings that come from bipolar and it has to be that the same neurons are affected in both disorders. I know that, personally, I can get really overwhelmed by crowds, loud noises, and a lot of chaos around me at times, so I can completely understand how "enough was enough". It does stink that you didn't have another dining option and had to basically eat hot dogs and fries for dinner. That's not cool.
I also can't believe that the cruise didn't have a standard set of directions back to WDW. That's ridiculous.
I also hate the fact that you had a smell in your stateroom for your whole stay.
Well, you tried it and you had an extremely open mind.
Let's get to the WDW portion of trip already then!
I, too, wish the cruises hadn't ended the way it did. The combination of rude CMs, the rude guests and John not feeling well, did not make for a wonderful way to end a cruise.
John seems to be doing a lot better on these meds but there are still a few things that need to be worked on, in my opinion. I'm hoping that the neurologist will find the right recipe soon.
I don't know if it was just a fluke or what but the poopy smell sayed in our room the entire time. Bridora said that she didn't smell it and they were just a few doors down from us. But, they had a verandah so that may have helped get more ventilation in their room. It wasn't overwhelming but it wasn't pleasant, that's for sure.
Aww, Lisa, so sorry it ended on that bad note. And I can't imagine there being nothing to eat except hot dogs at that hour of the night. On other ships the casual dining room is open quite late. To be honest, I think part of the problem is that the Disney ship is so big and has so many passengers. I have only cruised on Holland America, and their ships are much smaller, so you don't get that huge crowd feeling. Plus the fact that you really can't get good deals on Disney cruises, so unlike WDW or
Disneyland, you may not feel you get your money's worth. I have always loved going to the Disney parks because I always felt that even though it was expensive, the amenities and the magic made it so worth it. Moving you around to different dining rooms is confusing, the crowds waiting in line for everything is annoying, and you are paying a lot of money for that little tiny STINKY room. Someday try HAL, and I really think your experience would be better.
In the meantime, there is NOTHING like WDW. I am so happy that Mama is going along next year, and that your GIRL will be there too. It doesn't seem as though the cast members on the ship were trained as well as those in the parks! You so seldom encounter cast members at WDW who are less than enthusiastic and helpful. I am looking forward to the LAND part of the TR, and your PTR for next year!
I always thought that there were places to dine almost 24/7 on the cruise ship. I guess it really was but, that night, hot dogs were on the menu.
Like I said above, the stinky smell lingered the entire trip. We made sure we kept the door closed until we had to go in there. We are beyond excited to have our whole crew going next year.
I'm sorry your cruise didn't turn out like you'd imagined it would. It's frustrating when we build something up in our mind, and then it doesn't turn out the same way. Knowing your family, I'm sure there were plenty of laughs along the way, so you have some good memories of being together!

Thanks for sharing your honest thoughts and feelings about it!
One question about the cruise---Are you assigned a seat in the theatre, or is it first come, first serve? Just curious!
We did have make some great cruise memories...pirate party, Believe and the first part of the
Castaway Cay day.
We were not assigned seats in the theater. It was just go on in and find a seat.
Lisa, I'm so sorry the end of the cruise was such a bummer for you guys...from rude guests, to not helpful CM's, to John having some problems with his meds. And I'm so sorry that you cried on your last night. I can't even imagine how you were feeling.
I'm so hoping that your time at your "home" proves to be much happier for all of you.
I normally do not cry when we have these type of situations but I just couldn't help myself that night.
Thanks for being so honest! I'm sorry that you had a rough night, it is so hard to deal with those type of medical things. Don't want to hover, but you can't just wave a magic wand and make it better!
I do think that the rest of your cruise sounds like a lot of fun though! I would love to do a cruise, but they are seem so pricey compared to just a regular disney trip! It's on my Disney Bucket List though!
You know me, I always tell it like it is even if it's a pretty bad story to tell. It's very hard for me not to hover over him. I try not to but it's hard. Mama, on the other hand, has not mastered the art of sneaking a peek to make sure he's okay. She wants to baby him like crazy which drives him even nuttier. At least she cares.
The price of the cruise was a lot for us. We spent just a little over $3,000 for just the three of us. $3,000 would have gone a long way at WDW.
I am so sorry your cruise wasn't the Disney experience we have come to expect. But I know the second half of your vacation will be. Can't wait to read more.
I also understand epilepsy. My little brother had epilepsy until he was in his 20s when it just seemed to 'go away.' I pray that John's will just 'go away' too. And I also understand mood swings. I battle them too (though not from nearly as dangerous of a cause) stemming from diabetes. When my sugar level get out of whack, I can get pretty moody and cranky. Although it has taken DH many, many years to understand that my "crankiness" is out of my control and to become a bit more understanding. I mean, I feel bad enough as it is when I get cranky and moody, but when DH makes it out to be my fault, I feel even worse. John is lucky to have you on his side.
You are a strong lady with a big heart and your family is lucky to have you. Of course, I am pretty sure they know that.
I so wish John's epilepsy would just go away. Unfortunately, unless God decides to make the bruise disappear, I'm afraid we'll be dealing with it for the rest of John's life.
It's hard for me to keep my feelings at bay sometimes. I know that it's not John's fault for the way he's acting.
I'm sorry to hear that the cruise wasn't what you had hoped it would be! It really is a lot of money to feel "stuck on a boat". I'm glad that John started feeling better after taking his medication though!
I hope the WDW portion of your trip treated you guys much better!!! (Starting with the odor of the room!)
John did start to feel a bit better after taking his "magic" pills and then his nightly dosage.
I am so sorry that your cruise didn't end on a happy note. I have always wanted to try one but my DH would go crazy, he would have the same thought as John..."stuck on a boat, with no where to go." I am glad you were open and honest with this part of your TR.
My sister in law has had epilepsy her whole life. I understand how difficult it can be to help but not hover when you see their medical situation changing right before your eyes. I will say an extra prayer tonight for your family.
I am looking forward to reading the next installments when you get back to your happy place
I am very glad that we decided to go on the cruise. Take John's medical condition out of the equation and I would have to say that we did enjoy the cruise for the most part.
Thank you so much for the prayers!
I'm really glad that you choose the 3 day cruise over the 7!
We have thought about cruising and we have gone back and forth about it. My kids are pretty young and I know they would enjoy it but, it all comes down to the money at this point! Do we want to spend that kind of money for what we "hope" will be a great time or do we want to spend less for what we "know" will be a great time!
I have read other reports that are similar to yours. Such high hopes and it turns out, the magic just isn't there for some reason.
My in-laws have cruised twice with Disney and both times, they actually woke up to wet bathrooms! Disney told them it was common in some rooms as the boat rocks! YUCK! Not something I want to wake up too!!!!!
Can't wait to follow along! I am sure that the rest of your trip was fantastic!
I am very glad that we didn't take a longer cruise. I think we would have gone stir crazy if we had.
Wet bathrooms? Yuck! When we mentioned the smell in our room to our stateroom host, he said that it was typical. No other explanation.
Lisa-I'm so sorry the cruise wasn't what you hoped it would be. I can imagine how frustrating and disappointing it was when you realized you spent all that money to try something new and it just wasn't what you thought. But, I can definitely understand why you felt that way especially with the stinky bathroom, rude guests and unhelpful CM. Really? She couldn't take a minute to find someone who could help you? It definitely doesn't sound like the wonderful service Disney usually delivers.

I really hope that the WDW portion of your trip was much better!! I'm looking forward to reading about all your adventures.
Looking back on the cruise, I'm glad that we did it. We are such Disney fans that we found ourselves missing Walt Disney World.
I couldn't believe the CM didn't want to help us with our directions. I thought it was a pretty common question.
Oh Lisa I'm so sorry. I understand why you were disappointed. I sure hope that the WDW portion of the trip made up for it. (sending this from my phone - sure wish I had a hug smiley for you)
I'm going to pretend I see that hug smiley and I appreciate it.
Oh Lisa, that update about broke my heart. There is nothing worse than being on a family vacation, one you have dreamed and hoped for, saved for and having things go so terribly wrong in a horrible nightmare domino effect.
I can see why the idea of going on another cruise was so incredibly unappealing in that moment and then many that followed.
I can also see how with time, it could become possible to separate a horrible perfect storm, from the cruise itself and consider giving it another shot.
A couple of things. I am shocked that Cabanas wasn't open. I was always under the impression that it was for dinner, all nights. I do know once we had that impression but it was just that one side was closed and we had to walk around. As I was reading your update I kept thinking room service and was relieved to see you finally went that route and got some food. The idea of you sobbing by the counter service locations is heartbreaking...yet I think most of us have been there on a family trip at one time or another and can relate. If not in actuality, in how our hearts felt at the moment. Thank you for sharing. Life isn't all sunshine and ponies, even at Disney.
Very dissapointed in guest services and directions, and the response you got from
DCL. I've had a couple of similar experiences when taking things "up". Thankfully balanced out by the exact opposite at times too but it doesn't warm your heart the way you want it to does it. If you do another one, I'd choose a longer one. The guest demographic is different, and I think your experience would be too. Doesn't eliminate the stuck on a boat thing though.
I thought that Cabanas was open during lunch and dinner hours but it sure wasn't that evening. We walked in and it was completely empty. Not one person in sight.
We were both standing there slack jawed when the castmember refused to help us with directions. I thought that was a pretty standard question.
I'm thinking that the next cruise we take will be a 4 night cruise to the Bahamas or the Alaskan cruise. Mama wants to go to Alaska and said that she'd go on the cruise with us if we were to ever go.
Hi Lisa..I'm so sorry the last night of your cruise didn't turn out well. When you were describing John's symptoms, I for sure thought he was going to seize. Thank God he didn't. I hope the rest of your trip was magical and I can't wait to hear about it. -Amanda
I was thanking God that he didn't have a seizure too. The moodiness and shaking are all of his symptoms.
I hope to get another installment written soon.
I too was sorry to read that you had a bad last night on the cruise. I think that's one of the problems with the shorter cruise, you get on the ship, stop at two poets and then your off the ship. Even on a 14 or 15 night cruise the last night can be stressful too, with having to pack everything up and have it out the door to be picked up. Heck the cruse director on both of my longer ones during their debarkation talk reminded everyone to have a change of clothes and shoes for the next day as they have seen many families walking off the ship in there PJ's and barefoot.
It's funny that you mentioned the PJs and barefoot comment. I kept reminding myself to keep out a suit of clothes for us to wear when we got off the ship.