Why not share the information with everyone? - that's the purpose of the forum.
To transfer points to another member, the member transferring the points just needs to contact MS with the name and city of the member receiving the points. The membership number is NOT necessary. The transfer is made and the points are usually available for use within 24 hours since the transfer is made manually.
Some will do this with a 3-way call so everyone can hear the transaction as it is made, but that is not necessary.