Ex-gf to Evil New gf...

[The Dark Dancer]

Ugh, some people have no manners Sorry that happened Ash!

 

[Princess Ash]

Thanks guys...you all are so sweet and understanding.

WDWHunk...I'd respond...but there's too much to say and you have to know us...and all the complicated details...

 

[rnorberg]

OK...sorry to not be nice...you may think this is "rude" but....

For you to write her at all is EXTREMELY immature and RUDE! Let it go...hes with someone else now. Grow up and move on.

 

[The Dark Dancer]

OK...sorry to not be nice...you may think this is "rude" but....

For you to write her at all is EXTREMELY immature and RUDE! Let it go...hes with someone else now. Grow up and move on.

While I totally respect your opinion, I do believe that that was uncalled for. She (Ash) was just trying to be nice, but the other girl was very rude. She should have shown her the same equal respect. I believe that Ash was very mature because, she has "moved-on" enough to contact the other girl and still be nice and not rude at all. I would have personally done the same as Ash

That's just my 2 cents.

 

[rnorberg]

I respect your opinion as well...but...

In what world do you live in where a person contacts the new significant other in a failed relationship????????? This person (Ash) CLEARLY still has a hang up on this guy and is CLEARLY just trying to pry into thier lives (read her original post, cause she admits that) She is not being mature, she is being very immature...again...she ADMITS this in her original post...re-read it.

 

[2HOT2touch]

I respect your opinion as well...but...

In what world do you live in where a person contacts the new significant other in a failed relationship????????? This person (Ash) CLEARLY still has a hang up on this guy and is CLEARLY just trying to pry into thier lives (read her original post, cause she admits that) She is not being mature, she is being very immature...again...she ADMITS this in her original post...re-read it.

When my ex was going out with this girl, I became really good friends with her, they arent going out anymore but we are still really good friends. Maybe we had to be friends cuz we live in a dorm together, but it was never really weird. And my friend now she is "friends" with her exes gf. At first they faught and then they became friends but my friend just complicated things more so I dont think they are friends anymore. BUt there is no law against being nice to someone, even if they are your exes gf or bf in a guys case.

 

[Princess Ash]

I respect your opinion as well...but...

In what world do you live in where a person contacts the new significant other in a failed relationship????????? This person (Ash) CLEARLY still has a hang up on this guy and is CLEARLY just trying to pry into thier lives (read her original post, cause she admits that) She is not being mature, she is being very immature...again...she ADMITS this in her original post...re-read it.

A)I think it is very rude that you do not know me nor my situation and that you are being so mean. You can express an opinion without being so abrasive.
B)My other ex is my best friend and I know all his girlfriends and have pretty much hung out with all of them
C) I also do not appreciate it being called a "failed relationship"...I would not call people who went their separation after TWO YEARS and THREE MONTHS a failed relationship

That's my non-abrasive response because I'm really kind of peeved right now but I can control my emotions.

 

[rnorberg]

im confused on why you think its normal to try to contact some girl you DONT know, who is dating your X-BF and ask her to be friends....what planet are you from? Grow up...leave her alone, its not rude of her to NOT want to be friends with her bf's X-GF!!!! DUH!!! If you were dating some guy...would you want his X pestering you? NO.

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

Gr I'd give her a piece of my mind..

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

im confused on why you think its normal to try to contact some girl you DONT know, who is dating your X-BF and ask her to be friends....what planet are you from? Grow up...leave her alone, its not rude of her to NOT want to be friends with her bf's X-GF!!!! DUH!!! If you were dating some guy...would you want his X pestering you? NO.

P.S. Don't be so rude. This is a Disney board you are suppost to be caring and respectful something you are not doing now at ALL.

 

[Daisymae26]

im confused on why you think its normal to try to contact some girl you DONT know, who is dating your X-BF and ask her to be friends....what planet are you from?

I think she was just trying to be nice; she's not the kind of person that would want to antagonize someone else.

Grow up...leave her alone, its not rude of her to NOT want to be friends with her bf's X-GF!!!! DUH!!! If you were dating some guy...would you want his X pestering you? NO.

I agree with the last sentence, but I think it was the tone of the letter that seemed rude.

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

Exactly Claire.
You have made your point 3 times now rnogberg and after the second time it was like you are trying to pick a fight. The last part about "wanting your x to 'pester' you" I agree with, but you didn't read that Ash and this x-bf are best friends did you? Or that she is just trying to be nice and make more friends? I would do the same thing, adding his friends, xgfs, or current gf just to be in the loop. If your best friends with your xbf and you hang out you want to be friends with his gf so you all can go out to a movie or something and have a good time. I admit I would read the journal entries because it's something to do, they would be posted for a reason for others to read.

 

[Princess Ash]

Thanks Charmaine...

And no everyone, I wouldn't want an ex-gf bothering me...but I wouldn't care if she wanted to add me too her friend's list. It's not voodoo, it's not evil, and I'm not that kind of person. I have made friends with my different bf's friends...girls and boys alike...thank you very much.

 

[Daisymae26]

Thanks Charmaine...

And no everyone, I wouldn't want an ex-gf bothering me...but I wouldn't care if she wanted to add me too her friend's list. It's not voodoo, it's not evil, and I'm not that kind of person. I have made friends with my different bf's friends...girls and boys alike...thank you very much.

Well said Ash!

 

[Princess Ash]

Well said Ash!

Thanks! Only honest and from my heart...I'm a person who basically wears her heart on her sleeve...

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

Me too Ash, I'm VERY emotional even the smallest things get me in a ball (for example failing my math tests).

 

[WDWHunk]

You may have made friends with other ex gf's but you still said the only reason you wanted to add her is to read her private entries. Maybe she assumed that is why you wanted to add her (and she would be right) and so she doesn't want to even try to become friends. She has probably only heard bad things about you and hasn't liked you from the start.

 

[Princess Ash]

If you read my entry...it wasn't JUST to read that...
It was because I didn't want to be thot of as "HER"...you know...that awful mean *****y ex-gf that wants to steal your boyfriend just because she hangs out with him occasionally type. Cuz I'm not like that. I'm extremely non-confrontation actually, which is why I didn't continue to badger her after that reply.

Not mad or anything, thought I might just clear that up.