Ex-gf to Evil New gf...

[Princess Ash]

So...I was talking to my ex tonight...who also is a friend...

I wanted to add his new GF to my myspace friends...pretty much so I could read up on her private entries about him (lol, not gonna lie) and just so there wouldn't be this evilness...cuz I hate of being thot of as "her"

So I wrote this:

Hey ------,

My name is Ashlie. By now I'm sure you know me as the "ex-gf" which usually has some very negative connotations to it. Well, I hope you won't think of it that way. I'm just a nice, semi-shy/semi-outgoing girl, just like you. "Ex-bf" is one of THE most awesome guys EVER. He was an amazing bf, and I'm sure he'll be the same to you. Lol, course, I wouldn't be doing my job if I didn't tell you to be extremely amazing back to him and if you hurt him then I'd be very.......upset.
Anyways, I won't bother you. Just figured I'd add you to my myspace friends.

Ttyl,
Ashlie

She wrote back:

Ashlie,


Honestly, I do not want to be your friend so stop asking me if I want to be your friend. Its just not going to happen!


~------

Why do some people have to be so RUDE??? What a witch woman! She seriously needs an attitude adjustment. I've NEVER had any new gf's of my other ex (another VERY CLOSE friend) act SO immaturely and rudely and meanly to me...and this girl is 6 years older! 23! WOW!

Have any of you had this sort of experience, or have anything to say on it?

 

[Lil_Tink]

Some people are just...Yeah..

 

[Cinderella94]

Wow! Oh my gosh Ash that is so mean! I can not believe she would say that!
Hmm...I don't know if anything like this has happened to me before....
and it shouldn't be happening to you either! I can't believe some people....

 

[2HOT2touch]

it never happened to me before, but I just think she is unsecure about her relationship with him, and prolly thinks you are going to steal him from her.

 

[MuNkY]

My mom and dad got divorced, and he dated this new girl. She treated my mom like dirt.

 

[Azure]

I'm sorry Ash and I'm sorry MuNkY

 

[WDWmaniac]

she is probably mad bc ur " ex " likes u more than he truly loves her

 

[Princess Ash]

My mom and dad got divorced, and he dated this new girl. She treated my mom like dirt.

Ouch...I'm sorry about that Mike...your poor mom...

 

[MuNkY]

Ouch...I'm sorry about that Mike...your poor mom...

It got funny at times though. She had no reason to hate my mom what-so-ever.

Something that is also kind of funny, is even though she hated my mom so much, she let her take her two youngest girls to Cedar Point with her. O_O

 

[2HOT2touch]

My mom and dad got divorced, and he dated this new girl. She treated my mom like dirt.

that happened to my best friends mom. when her parents got divorced, her dads new gf(now his wife) pushed my friends mother over on purpose, and my friends mom has MS like really bad and she couldnt get back up and the lady that pushed her down just walked away.

 

[DramaQueen]

um...ew!

what a horrid girl!!!

yuck.

i cannot stand mean girls.

 

[Sparx]

what an upsetting person...I'm sorry she was so rude to you.

 

[*~WDW 2006~*]

Here's how I think of it PrincessAsh. She's jelious of you... most times people start getting mean if they are:
1. Jelious
2. Just arn't very nice to begin with
3. See you as a threat (to whatever it is)

I think she qualifies as #'s 1&2.

 

[Princess Ash]

Thanks for your support guys. I've never had anyone be like that...I was just so taken off guard...still almost frazzled...

 

[Captain Brain]

Ash, the girl was a jerk. People don't need to be mean.

 

[Daisymae26]

Wow Ash...was she ever rude! I could understand what she was saying if perhaps she thought you wanted to get back together and "rub it in her face", but I think if she did, she was reading waaaaaay toooo much into the "email"! Really, it sounds as if you just wanted to get to know her better, and anyone who knows you knows that you are a very sweet person and would never do a thing like that! So anyway Ash, I'm sorry she was so very rude!

<3 Claire

 

[WDWHunk]

Even if my gf was friendly with her ex bf's (which she's not so idk how it is) I can't say that I would want to be friends with them just because she was. I probably would for the mere fact I'd want to intimidate them and get them to go away. There's no reason for people who used to date to still be close. None at all. If people are really such good friends then you'd still be together. There will always be jealousy there (you said yourself you want to read her private entries about him).

She shouldn't have been so rude. If it was me I would have just ignored your message. Then again, guys aren't like that. We would never add our gf's old bf's... ever

 

[2HOT2touch]

Even if my gf was friendly with her ex bf's (which she's not so idk how it is) I can't say that I would want to be friends with them just because she was. I probably would for the mere fact I'd want to intimidate them and get them to go away. There's no reason for people who used to date to still be close. None at all. If people are really such good friends then you'd still be together. There will always be jealousy there (you said yourself you want to read her private entries about him).

She shouldn't have been so rude. If it was me I would have just ignored your message. Then again, guys aren't like that. We would never add our gf's old bf's... ever

I dont agree. Because maybe you work better as friends rather than more than friends. I mean, it's just like you having a friend that is a girl but is not your gf. Cuz I know that I have a ton of guy friends but i wouldnt date them cuz i know that we wouldnt go well together as bf and gf. its the same thing, you just dated at first to see if you would work out or not, and obviously it didn't work out.

 

[goofyandplutoluver]

I'm sorry that happened Ash!!

 

[BandGeek911]

What a rude and immature girl! She was a jerk!