Ever just have a really bad day?

[antkim]

How do you get out of the funk of it???????? I just can't seem to shake my down mood. Dh and I got into a really awful arguement this a.m. and I just can't seem to shake it off. Stupid arguement that should never have taken place...but it did. He said some hurtful things as did I and although I know it will all blow over it still hurts. Why do we say things in anger? I wish I could learn not to but when he gets me mad...he really gets me mad (and I do the same with him!) There are only 2 people in the entire world that can get me really worked up...my Mom and my dh. 2 people that I am closet to!!!!! Guess they know the buttons to press....I bet they wish they didn't!

O.K. vent over

Kim

 

[AprilShowers]

 

[Evil Genius]

Call your dh tell him you love him. That might help. Doesn't mean you aren't still mad. It will make him wonder what you are up to.

 

[Serena]

 

[sajetto]

Sorry to hear about your day. I agree with the other poster, call him or send a text message if he can't answer the phone

 

[BamaTigger]

 

[antkim]

Call your dh tell him you love him. That might help. Doesn't mean you aren't still mad. It will make him wonder what you are up to.

Ya know, normally this would be how I would handle it BUT this time I just do not want to. I know that sounds childish but the arguement turned "serious" and he made some "comments" that I just can not forgive right now. Stubborn? Maybe but what he said really bothered me and he KNEW it would.

Don't get me wrong...he is a great guy....just not to me right now!

 

[disneymama73]

Hope your day gets better.

 

[Tigger&Belle]

I'm sorry you're having a rough day. If you can't call or e-mail him right now, maybe that means that it's just not the right thing to do yet. You're still too mad and it wouldn't be sincere. Or maybe he really needs to be the one taking the first step this time.

When my DH and I get into an argument, I hold on to it for a lot longer than he does. I can stew about it all day (or if it's in the evening, I don't sleep all night) and he's forgotten about it after a few minutes. That makes me even madder. I take it so personally and I don't know how to get over that, so I'm the last one to offer advice.

 

[suezpqt]

Dear Antkim -
I just wanted to say I hope your days gets better!

 

[DisneyAddict_M]

I hope your day gets better!

Now go out and buy yourself something really expensive.

 

[antkim]

I hope your day gets better!

Now go out and buy yourself something really expensive.

OOOOOOOOOOO now that is a good idea!!!!!!

 

[DisneyAddict_M]

OOOOOOOOOOO now that is a good idea!!!!!!

lol that's what I did last year when my ex-bf broke up with me. I went out and bought myself a really cushy (and really expensive) bedding set. It made me feel a hundred times better!

 

[cyndibelle]

sorry you had an argument...that isnt fun with anyone but when it is someone you truely care about its even worse!! Call him up and tell him you are so sorry for your outburst and that you would like to make it up to him tonight...

 

[Alex2kMommy]

You could email him and tell him how you REALLY feel, which is basically what you included in your original post: That things were said that shouldn't have been, you are very hurt, and that you are having a really bad day because you can't shake it off.

DH typically calls me several times a day, but one day we'd had a spat and I was really ticked off. He got over it quickly, but I didn't, and every time he called, I just didn't answer, I was just too mad to speak to him right then. So I emailed him, told him how I felt, and that I was still too mad to talk to him yet, but that we could talk when he got home.

That helped me let go a bit, and also let him know that it didn't just blow over!