While I think these men are sleazebags, these practices bother me. To me, it seems like entrapment.
I think I'm with you.
It makes me feel like it's "thought crime", not actual crime. A person thinks "that would be nice" and they are arrested without having actually DONE anything. (and yay, they haven't done anything, but still, they haven't DONE anything except for think about it)
I guess maybe "soliciting" means just words...before reading this thread I thought it meant you actually had to DO something, not just talk about it and offer money...but it seems I'm wrong on that...
But with just an offer, a thought...it just feel uncomfortable to me.
Particularly if there's no explicit offer of an illegal act with a minor contained in the ad text... which the police generally avoid doing lest it aid in an entrapment defense.
And that's where I am opposite...to me, offering makes it NOT entrapment, because the person is explicitly saying "yes this is what I want to do, let's go!", isntead of just this "you showed up here, it's implied what you want to do" sort of arrest.
A person can change their mind at ANY moment before doing something, but these arrests get the people without having the chance to change their minds.
Actually, as a citizen of the United States, I am concerned about the rights of offenders. That doesn't mean that I condone what they have done, or don't find their actions disgusting, it just means that we, as a society, have to respect their rights. If we don't follows these most basic set of rules and rights then we are no better than the criminals themselves.
IMO you lose those civil rights when you choose to break the law...especially a law that protects children. What happens if we wait until these pervs actually committ a crime against a child?
A *thought* doesn't harm a child.
So taking it down a million notches, let's say I've had it up to HERE with my kid and I'm thinking about hitting him. I get as far as raising my hand with all of the intent in the world to hit him hard....and then I change my mind, reason re-enters my mind and I stop and figure out a better way to deal with the situation. Crisis averted.
But let's say I'm arrested as my hand is in the air just as I'm thinking "oh dear no".
Is that right? Does the arrest for having the hand in the air reflect what would have actually happened? Or is it now a crime to have a hand in the air, THINKING about something?
Is it a crime to go to a place THINKING about something (incredibly nasty of course, though honestly the social construct with ages and limits on "activity" is a pretty new one and isn't in all cultures, so really, I'm not sure biology goes along with the very nice limits some current cultures have placed upon society)? IF it is, well OK then. That might be the "soliciting" part that seems to be "offering" not "going forth with it".
Just feels like thought crime to me, and I thought that was just in fiction.