Hey, is it normal for your wedding coordinator NOT to be at your wedding? I finally got my confirmation email and my coordinator wrote: "Please call me with your room number once you check in and I will answer any questions or review last minute details you may have. At that time I will also let you know if I (or one of my colleagues) will be your on-site coordinator. The On-Site Coordinator will plan on meeting you and your guests at the ceremony location thirty minutes prior to the ceremony." I know that things can arise, but she sounds like she is pre-planning to be missing in action on my wedding day..... what's up with that?