OP here
Even though I'm not as mad as I was at first, I'm still not happy with it at all.
It's not like this is something that has gone on for generations, no cafeteria & sack lunch at your desk.
They gave parents no say or control over this, they just took it away and then told us what they have done.
I am going to talk to the principal and other parents on Monday to see how everyone else is feeling about it. Ironically it's the day Kindergarteners are eating in the lunch room to practice for next year, lol. They didn't cancel it.
Actually, for years many kids went home for lunch every day if they lived close enough to school as parents saw it as THEIR responsibility to feed their kids. A lot of schools didn't have cafeterias so kids either packed lunches or when home. A school's job is to teach kids. My mom and dad both went home everyday for lunch (1940's and 1950's). A lunch doesn't have to be hot to be nutritious. My kids (and myself) bought lunch once a week as a treat in school. We packed lunches and DH and I still do. Parents have given up control by allowing the schools to decide what your children will eat, not the other way around.
I'm confused as to why this is a big deal. You can have total control over what your child has for lunch every day and make sure it's good for them. In fact, from grade 3 on, my boys made and packed their own lunches. It's a life skill they need. They're grown now and pack their own nutritious lunches to take to work. The US Gov guidelines are not what I want my kids to eat.