The past two years have been difficult for us. Lots of living paycheck to paycheck which hasn't been comfortable. DH was laid off from his employer just before Christmas in '07 (warehouse manager for large plumbing/sewer supplier at that time) and I had to change to a full-time RN position with benefits until he was re-employed five months later. Now I work two jobs & he has a long commute to his employer. We are recovering but there still seems to be no extra money. It doesn't help that we bought a new place in 2006 which increased our mortgage by three times what it was previously. But we needed to move to a bigger home due to all the kids we have & unfortunately bought in when the market was a seller's. So we're recovering slowly. But with no savings to speak of, some credit card debt & a not-cheap mortgage we've got a way to go. My biggest concern is that my oldest graduates from college this summer & I don't think he'll be able to get a job. Oh why couldn't I convince him to study for an occupation?