I hate seeing $7-8 shipping fees on something I know is under a pound. While I use the bid + shipping = total price, it annoys me to see ridiculous shipping charges and given the choice I'll go for the lower shipping charge even if the total price is the same.
I'm the same way for the most part. Even though I understand why sellers do it, it still seems a little dishonest to me because I know they are doing it to avoid eBay fees. I don't mind a small fee, like 50 cents or $1, but more than that seems too high.
I haven't sold in a while, but when I did, I used to charge actual shipping.
As a buyer, I also do the bid + shipping = total price. I also check the Completed Auctions to see how much I can reasonably expect to pay for an item and whether I am willing to pay that.
Having been a Seller, I understand they adding onto the shipping to get out of paying the fees. Yet, last week, I bought 2 pieces of costume jewelry from different Sellers. The bid price was very low while the shipping fees were a whopping $9 & $11.

The total prices were still less than or about the same as I would have spent in a store - minus the gas & time shopping, so I thought the total prices were very reasonable. The Sellers would still make a decent profit.
Yet when the packages arrived, they were in thin, padded envelopes, bubble wrapped, with 1st class postage, costing them barely $2.00. I, at least, expected a small box, or even cardboard taped around & covering the jewelry, inside the padded envelope, as these were slightly fragile items, & the stones could break if too much pressure was applied.

It pissed me off that they would not even pay to have the items securely protected.
If you're going to give the illusion of charging a premium for shipping &
handling, then handle & package the items properly. I DID pay for it.
