breakfast-Cape May Café at BC-great food, good characters and made to order crepes!!! We mostly stay at BC (10 out of 17 trips) and we have breakfast there every trip even when we stay at AKL or WL.
lunch-Beaches & Cream-good diner type food, fun sundaes and shakes and fun atmosphere
dinner-Yachtsman Steakhouse-fantastic food, great service and truffle mac and cheese AND you can go to the newly opened Ample Hills Creamery on the Boardwalk for some of the best ice cream you will ever eat (if you have never had it at their NYC locations) Keep in mind though that Yachtsman is an upscale experience with the pacing and prices to match.
You will love the BC-it is our absolute favorite resort!