DVD players on airplanes

OK, my DD is only 2 so not sure if she will actually suck on the dumdum. I rarely ever give her suckers. They make such a mess. She likes gummie fruit snacks, so we'll try those. Is it basically best to have them do it during take off?

My kids seem to have more trouble during the landing, so about 30-45 minutes landing I bring out a chewey snack. For a two year old one of the spill proof sippie cups that you actaully have to sip hard to get the liquid out work pretty well also.

TJ
 
Perhaps we should say, adults who require complete peace and quiet shouldn't fly. We'll be packing those planes with our kids, gameboys, dvds, drinks, snacks etc. Even headphones in most cases.
I don't require complete peace, so I guess I can still fly. I can't figure out if stuff like the above is being posted just because popcorn:: , or if parents really don't see that if there is a way to have your cake and eat it too (bring the DVD and either headphones, or no sound it's a good choice..). No one is saying that kids won't be kids, and we won't hear them at all. This thread is about DVD players and should a child wear them, or what to do with a child who isn't used to them. Gosh, I've brought three grands flying with me (we've gone as far as Ireland, and many trips to Disney), and we always did all we could to keep the kids busy, and the passengers around us as non distracted by our kids as possible. Did they always sit like statues and do nothing? Of course not, and no was expecting them too. However, I certainly tried my best to give them enough to do, and keep the sound of their toys/DVD players/game boy in the ears of the child using it, and not our neighbors. I never thought twice about it, knowing it's a small place with lots of people.
I expect neither kids or adults to be perfectly quiet, but surely, if there is a way to make your neighbors more comfortable, why on earth wouldn't you do it? Planes are not the only time children have to be quieter than if they are at a playyard. I have to say, I am very surprised at some of the remarks and name calling. You guys are supposed to be the adults LOL.
 
My kids seem to have more trouble during the landing, so about 30-45 minutes landing I bring out a chewey snack. For a two year old one of the spill proof sippie cups that you actaully have to sip hard to get the liquid out work pretty well also.

TJ
Off Topic a little, but I've read that the new Boeing (787 ??) that is being developed will be pressurized higher than current planes. I believe current planes are pressurized at 10,000 feet or so. The newer plane will have higher pressure, meaning it will feel like it's at a lower altitude, and the air pressure change upon landing will be less than current planes.

Back on topic, I'm retired now, but for years did a lot of frequent flying.

I've observed a lot of things from people of all ages. Yes there can be bratty kids with parents who do nothing, but there are also others who are angels, or if not, their parents handle the situation well. But adults are not immune. Mostly adults are mature, well-mannered, and in the case of business travelers, professional. But I've also seen my share of drunken, disorderly 'fans' going off to some sporting event, and who think the plane is their 'personal' vehicle to do with as they see fit.

Age makes no difference. Being responsible is what matters. And also being considerate of others. As the old saying goes, "you have a right to swing your arm, but your right ends where my nose begins". Yes, a child has a right to watch a DVD, but he does not have the right to have it so loud the 'noise' is at my eardrum.

Finally, one last comment. Business flyers in most cases pay the highest fares of all travelers, mostly because many flights are booked late. Most flights I flew were booked less than two weeks ahead, and many were booked only hours ahead. So the point is, those cheap tickets you got your yourself and your kids, were cheap because it's the business flyers who are making the flight possible in the first place. A little consideration should be extended to their needs.

The above of course does not apply during holiday travel....:rotfl2: In that case, since it's a zoo anyway, everyone's lucky if they just make it to their destination.
 
Age makes no difference. Being responsible is what matters. And also being considerate of others. As the old saying goes, "you have a right to swing your arm, but your right ends where my nose begins". Yes, a child has a right to watch a DVD, but he does not have the right to have it so loud the 'noise' is at my eardrum.


You are right! I think if people know you are really trying to work through a situation where your child is having a complete meltdown, they'll be more understanding. That's what kids do best!

But it's not like I haven't seen an adult or two act like a child on a flight!
 

You may want to test your laptop for sound- ours does not get very loud (even with the volume up) We used it to play DVDs in our hotel room for our kids before there were DVD players in hotel rooms a few years ago, and you had to be right next the computer to hear it. I believe it would be impossible to hear ours over the drone of the plane even if you have it on your lap. The headphones work great though, and you can get a "splitter" for 2 pairs at radio shack. I would bring an extra pair from the dollar store in case the baby manages to break one. (It happened to us)

Also, some thoughts on not disturbing other pasangers. If you are flying SWA, pre-board and sit towards the front of the plane. People who do not want to be bothered by the various noises that children produce will usually try to sit in a different area. Since you are flying to Orlando, you are likely to be surrounded by families with young children for that leg of the trip. One time, I would say approximately 75% of the plane pre-boarded with us for the "families with children under 5" part.

You should do everything you can to be considerate, but don't worry yourself over this. The fact that you are asking means that you are trying to be considerate.
 
So what if you want to read or sleep? Why does that trump a child who wants to entertain themselves by watching a movie at low volume.


It doesn't any more than me wanting to watch an "R" rated movie on my laptop--with headphones. Or listen to Ice-T's latest CD, the one that drops the F-Bomb at least a few dozen times--without earphones--on low volume of course.

Of course I wouldn't do either of those, because I'm polite and considerate of those around me. Although if someone was ever rude enough to hand me earplugs and suggest I use them, I would seriously consider turning on the most vulgar music I've got on my laptop, and there would be no headphones. But instead I'd simply summon the flight attendant, and I've seen more than one of them tell people to use headphones or turn it off, period.

It comes down to consideration. If the child can't get the idea of earphones/headphones even at home practice in advance, then perhaps just don't use the DVD player. Children flew without them for 40 years and survived. Parents were creative and kept thier children entertained in other ways. Pipe cleaners. Yarn strands and sand paper. Crayons and coloring books. What happened to the day of being entertained for hours with a Barbie or a couple of Matchbox cars?

Anne
 
I am trying to be considerate of other travelers - I have been that other traveler many, many times before. But, truth be known, even when I was traveling before children (3 years ago), dvd players weren't that common.

And while my kids are usually very good in quiet places, i.e., church, restaurants, etc., they have never been on an airplane and I'm worried that the extra stimulation may bring out sides we've never seen.

Thanks for all of the positive tips and input.
 
I can't believe anyone, adult or child, would consider using a dvd player (or any sound emitting device) on a plane without using headphones. Just because no one complains, doesn't mean they are not annoyed.

I was once on a flight where I sat in front of some young parents "entertaining" their baby by playing several hours of Baby Einstein dvds. I thought that I would go mad!
 
Folks, in the tight confines of coach on an aircraft, ANY continuous audible noise from your neighbors is going to get annoying after awhile. That goes for conversations, music, movies, coughing, crunching ... the list is endless.

It is simple good manners to make an effort NOT to aurally intrude on those around you. Age really doesn't come into it for me -- I'm just as annoyed by endless conversations about Vegas or college football as I am by 2 hrs. of Spongebob or 200 choruses of Jingle Bells. Keep your voice down and give it a rest after 20 minutes or so. Companionable silence is a wonderful thing. If you have a cough, take something for it. If you want to eat cruchy food, do it quickly and get it over with.

When the noise is being caused by electronic devices, the simple and correct solution is headphones. Buy them, get the right size and train kids to use them before you leave for the trip. A child too tiny to use headphones isn't old enough to care if they can't hear the dialogue, so turn it off entirely. If older kids don't want to use headphones, switch on the closed captions and let them READ the dialogue, but either way, no headphones should mean no sound.
::yes::
 
Thank you for all of the input.:surfweb: Based upon some of the responses, especially those who are encouraging parents to stay off of airplanes with children, I think we may just leave the DVD player at home. You can never make everyone happy - as evidenced by just the posts to my question - and I don't want to CREATE more problems by having one child with headphones and the other one without.

My siblings and I all survived many flights without DVD players, and I think my kids will adjust as well.

Personally, even before I had kids, I have never had a problem with a crying child on an airplane, but I have had issues with intoxicated people, people who reek of too much perfume, body odor or cigarette smoke, and with those people generally obnoxious.:scared1: I'll try to remember that we all have our individual quirks like that.



Thanks again.

Don't be discouraged by this thread. The reality is that most people on flights are very understanding...you should have no problems as long as you act within reason. It is very difficult to entertain a toddler or small child on a flight...they just can't get up and move around like their bodies want them to...DVD players are in reality a great way to keep them occupied. Just keep the noise at a minimum or use headphones as best as you can...this thread is not a depiction of real life in my experience!!!
 












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