You know what this makes sense on the surface but something about that statement still doesn't ring true.
DVC is not a right of passage or some sort of magic elixir. You DON"T need DVC to be happy. Losing a loved one? Sorry but that WDW vacation isn't going to bring them back or make me feel any better about it. Waht would make me feel better is knowing I could help that family finacially maybe by paying the funeral costs or helping one of their kids pay for college.
All the memories in the world won't erase the huge burden of college debt for those that choose to allocate that money for this pre-paid vacation plan. Those memories won't help when the person can't afford medications after they retire.
I can't say this enough but the vast majority of DVC owners have no business owning. They can yell, rant, flame me, whatever they want it is true. If you can't pay cash comfortably then the money likely could be used elsewhere.
The part of your post that really gets me is the assumption that without DVC there is no memories or vacations. Those saying things like, "We could have never afforded this without DVC is way to much." Again if that statement is true they should be running to Tom at TSS and selling immediately.
Please people, there is more to this world than a trip to see the greedy mouse.
OP, go with the mutual fund.