Drunk 4 year old steals Christmas presents

PebblesMK

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How in the world does this happen? I'm not a perfect mother by any means, but I'm pretty sure my child has never got out in the middle of night, stole some beer and then stole neighbors Christmas presents. And I can't even get a grasp of the mom's thoughts on it. Apparently she is horrified, but it seems she thinks that "these things happen"?? Either way, I feel bad for this little guy.


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"CHATTANOOGA, Tenn. (WTVC-TV) - A 4-year-old boy, beer in hand, is accused of stealing Christmas presents from his neighbors. It's a strange story, but also a sad one.

April Wright is 21 years old and is going through a divorce with her husband who is in jail. She says she is not sure how her 4-year-old managed to get out of the house, open a beer, and steal the neighbors presents from under their tree. Now she's just glad he's okay and says she won't let it happen again.

The child, Hayden Wright, was found around 1:45 am Tuesday, wandering the streets of his neighborhood. In a police reports, officers said he was wearing a little girl's dress and drinking a beer. The police report says the child had to be taken to the hospital to be treated for alcohol consumption.

April Wright said, "Biggest concern was him being out there, getting kidnapped, getting run over, the alcohol, having to have his stomach pumped."

Wright says she woke up that night at 1:45 am and panicked when she found Hayden was gone. She says she put safety devices on all the doors so her kids couldn't get out, but Hayden was able to break the safety device off the doorknob and get outside.

Once out, Wright says her four year old followed his father's footsteps and was found on Blue Spruce Road, drinking.

"He runs away trying to find his father," she said. "He wants to get in trouble so he can go to jail because that's where his daddy is."

The Hamilton County Sheriff's Office report says Hayden rang the doorbell a few houses down and the neighbor answered, finding the child holding a partially consumeed 12-ounce beer.

Wright said, "He got it out of my father's cooler in the back and how he got it open I don't understand because it was one of those tab beers."

But it doesn't stop there. The report said Hayden then snuck into a neighbor's house through an unlocked front door, and stole five wrapped Christmas gifts. One was a girl's brown dress which Hayden was wearing when police found him.

"Going to the neighbor's house and taking their presents, very embarrassing," said April.

She admits she was not just embarrassed, but scared, and rushed to the hospital that night with Hayden. She said she tries to be a good mother and loves her son, but now feels like a failure.

"Kids do things like this and it's out of your control, you can do the best you can as a mother, everyone makes mistakes, it was an honest mistake," she said.

Wright did meet with child protective services today who told her she will get to keep custody of Hayden."
 
Just read the note and I was :scared1: I felt so bad for the poor kid, he's seeking attention bad, and the Mom too, she seems confused and embarrassed.
 

Sounds like the boy needs a positive male role model.
 
"He runs away trying to find his father," she said. "He wants to get in trouble so he can go to jail because that's where his daddy is."

That's so sad.
 
"He runs away trying to find his father," she said. "He wants to get in trouble so he can go to jail because that's where his daddy is."

That's so sad.
My thoughts precisely. Just so sad. :sad1:
 
For some reason, I'm more disturbed about him wearing the dress than the rest of the story. Dunno why.
 
I can't imagine the things this kid must have witnessed and experienced! Age FOUR? Drinking beer and breaking out of the house and going into neighbors houses and wandering the streets at night? Wow.
 
I had friends (in my troubled youth) who would give their 4yo sister beer so she'd be drunk because it was FUNNY to see what she'd do. No, I didn't participate but I never told anyone, either. We were 10 at the time. I have a very, VERY hard time believing the boy in the OP helped himself to beer, opened it up, etc. Lots of possible scenarios running through my head that are much more likely, perhaps simply because of what I saw as a child.

Either way, that poor little boy.
 
I think she is really trying her best - and she has her hands full with him - I do think she could benefit from DHS helping her with some classes on how to be a better parent - but lets not automatically assume the mom is bad ok...she needs some help on a few things but I don't think she has bad intentions - I also think that the dad might be responsible for some of his behavior and now that he is gone she might be able to get on the right track...:goodvibes
 
I think she is really trying her best - and she has her hands full with him - I do think she could benefit from DHS helping her with some classes on how to be a better parent - but lets not automatically assume the mom is bad ok...she needs some help on a few things but I don't think she has bad intentions - I also think that the dad might be responsible for some of his behavior and now that he is gone she might be able to get on the right track...:goodvibes

No one has said the mom is bad. Her best is not working, so she needs help.
 
"Kids do things like this...". I had to laugh when I heard that comment. My son has done a lot of things, but he has never gotten drunk, broken into a house, and put on a girl's dress (oh okay, he has tried on a girl's dress, but he was perfectly sober when doing so).

In all seriousness, this is a sad case. The child is trying to express his loss in the only way he knows how. He is crying out for help. The mother is obviously concerned about him. She even took the extra step of putting the child safe knobs on the doors. She is not to blame. There are no bad guys in this story. There are only victims. This child feels an incredible sense of loss and sadness. He needs help, and hopefully he will now be getting it.
 















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