Double Wedding

[NagyFamily]

My sister is going to get married for the third time so Today she asked me if I wanted to get married with the 2 of us at the same time on A beach somewhere in FLorida. I told her I had to think about it. Since it's my first wedding. Any thoughts???

 

[My sister's princess]

I wouldn't do it.

Do you want to?

 

[DisBride011]

I wouldn't do it. It's your first (and hopefully only) wedding. The attention should be on you and your husband only. I would not want to share my special day with my sister, sorry.

Best of Luck and Congrats!

 

[puente0629]

My sister got married recently for the third time too and if she would of asked me, I would of kindly said no. It's your first wedding and like the prior DISer said hopefully your last, you shouldn't have to share that moment with anyone but your future hubby.

Plus, is getting married on the beach something you would even like?

 

[BecBennett]

Probably not, I wouldn't be able to agree on anything with my sister, so it just wouldn't work.

 

[Mydisneywedding]

It was a nice thought on your sister's part but I agree with all the others,
This is your 1st wedding and hopefully your only wedding. It should be about you.

I know this doesn't mean much because it's based on superstition but I always heard that 2 sisters shouldn't marry at the same wedding... one will be full of happiness the other will be around saddness and tears. I know it's silly but it's an old Spanish superstition so I wouldn't do it.

I think your sister will understand! good luck

 

[Petals & Pixie Dust]

I wouldn't do it...No reason to share the spotlight with her 3rd wedding. It's your day...enjoy every minute of it!

 

[Skylarr29]

Absolutely not. Why should you share the cost and attention with someone who is going on her third marriage? Sister or not, she does not need all the attention of a formal wedding. I would not want her to over shadow your day.

 

[weedee]

definitely not, for all the reasons listed above. This is YOUR wedding...it's like the only time that it's okay to be selfish

 

[pixie921]

ITA with everyone above. Keep your day special for you and your future husband alone.

 

[Brit_Jude]

I can just see the situation being fraught with complications - dress styles, budget, style, guests. It is hard enough to work out what you want on your own without having to try to work it and compromise with another Bride. I would hate to get into something as important and emotional as a double Wedding that might cause lasting issues between my Sister and I. I don't know your situation but you also need to consider your DF and his family, they might not like having to share his wedding with another member of your family, it is his and their day to.

However everyone is different. If you are close with your Sister and have a great relationship, have similar tastes, budget, guest list etc and DF and his family are OK with it and this type of Wedding is something your want then go for it but make sure it is not something you will regret in the years to come.

 

[*Pixiedust1438*]

I wouldn't, you should have your own day, and I personally am not a fan of double weddings.

 

[Nikisha421]

No..not like I have even been married yet...but does the wedding enthusiasm wear off after like um maybe the second wedding...so Im not sure but I dont think this will even be a special day for her...not like im judging...just say..you know...

 

[The Scotts]

No way

 

[GirTheGecko]

I wouldn't do it. I couldn't see sharing that moment with anyone but the df. But it's hopefully your only wedding, so for this one day, you and your df can be the center of attention and plan exactly what you two want. No compromising. Except maybe to your budget.

 

[Chilly]

Don't do it!

 

[NagyFamily]

There wouldn't be anyone else there jut my sister and her hubbie and me and my hubbie. on a beach in Flordia so cheap no frills wedding.