Sara*s_Mommie
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Aug 24, 2008
I probably really don't have anything to add but here goes (I didn't read all the posts)...
Since you said that you go take a Disney trip every year, it would seem to me that those costs are normal, annual expenses. Being in 2 wedding parties is what's "extra", not the vacation. It would seem to me like by saying you shouldn't spend $ on your regular annual vacation and spend it on the weddings would be the same as asking you to reduce/eliminate any other standard cost you have and spend it on the weddings - like foregoing all Starbucks for a year and instead spend it on the wedding.
As for taking/inviting/including any of the others, I would just say "We're taking our annual trip to Disney on (dates). If anyone else is going those dates, we'll gladly meet up for dinner one night". To think you should plan, pay, include, etc for anyone else is absurd - however, disney is open to anyone who chooses to go.
Since you said that you go take a Disney trip every year, it would seem to me that those costs are normal, annual expenses. Being in 2 wedding parties is what's "extra", not the vacation. It would seem to me like by saying you shouldn't spend $ on your regular annual vacation and spend it on the weddings would be the same as asking you to reduce/eliminate any other standard cost you have and spend it on the weddings - like foregoing all Starbucks for a year and instead spend it on the wedding.
As for taking/inviting/including any of the others, I would just say "We're taking our annual trip to Disney on (dates). If anyone else is going those dates, we'll gladly meet up for dinner one night". To think you should plan, pay, include, etc for anyone else is absurd - however, disney is open to anyone who chooses to go.